Stay as you are.
Either they accept you or not.
The important is you.
Who knows you will accept you.
Who accept you will come to you.
Stay as you are.
Either they accept you or not.
The important is you.
Who knows you will accept you.
Who accept you will come to you.
Get it that way, malicious individuals are idiot, when they pretend, they don’t know, but basically, they know everything.
I went through a conversation with someone this day, the discussion was done clearly at my end, but the person whom I am talking with, replied to me that” I do not understand you” I repeated it again to him, then he said the same thing ” I don’t understand you” I told him ” I am not talking about science for inventing something , simply it is the way how it is” quickly after few seconds later, he got what he has got to reply. I got the answer. Then I wondered why did he react that way?! I was so much confused about how his reaction was! I then talked to my subconscious I said hey! This situation is familiar to me. I then remembered that this way of his repeating– pretending that he did not understand me was enough time to him for searching in his mind for an answer. Although, I got the answer but i still was not fully satisfied, because for what he did was not right at all.
My conversation was all about something wrong he committed. As a result, his pretence and wasting of my time was trying to get an idiot answer like him exactly for the purpose of protecting his back. Therefore, I was not looking for destroying him, all I wanted just to adjust for what he did only.
Finally, If I were him, I would be honest, answer the other person clearly without going to use this game, what it applies on him, it does not apply on others.
This strategic is an old game, I would let him play another game, that it could fit my level 😉.
Thank you for reading, peace!!
Ok right now, I could not just think for at least one minute, i would find individuals that they want to get you out of the right track under the name of advice, wow! That’s so disgusting. You know, before i was unaware of it, the enemies of your success will start getting nervous, when they see you flattering and shining due to your success which you gained during your work times. It is like your good work have left good marks behind you to be talked by people.
However, you know already that everybody is in the world has his/her own character, people are different in everything and that’s what it makes the universe unique, So if everybody was the same, life would be boring.
Mainly, I am talking about some characters who want to change their attitude and characters and even their deeds to satisfy others, therefore this is so wrong, and then it means you lost your self confidence, because you care a lot of what other people say about you. I would say to you, that let them say whatever they like about you, either you change or not, they will keep talking about you, and either you walk in the straight path or not, they will continue to talk about you though. So why you need to change and losing your original identity for the purpose of reaching other individuals’ satisfactions. Yes! Tell me what then?!!
In that light, you have to make sure from whom you get your advice if provided, analyse it, if it is for example destructive or constructive, and then confirm, if it is logic, thank them, in the meantime if it does not make sense, don’t argue them, just easily throw it away.
Envious people would provide such a cruel advice to drag you the way they you want you to be, because they do not literally want you to reach higher levels and block your success and create for you an illusional walls that what you are doing is totally wrong, if you listen to them, they won, and you lost the competition which you have set it for achieving it.
The criticisms never end, and the storm of difficulties inevitably you will encounter it, just keep moving and dont take their trash to yourself..
Thank you for reading.
This is so ridiculous when reading some pieces from professional network sources and surfing through internet. Finally you get what you are looking for, and then you start reading a number of articles, and got convinced about what professionals have said in their articles. Later, we contemplate about their words, after few days, you need to go deeply through the specific topic you were searching for.
Accidentally, your eyes fell off on another sources, you keep reading and then you found out the content contradicts what you have read it via reading previous sources which it relates to another professional writers.
Internet has tremendously negative impact on our lives, and it could be an even the worst place, we rely on if we go read articles from unreliable networks, because if you get influenced and your mindset programmed for what they have mentioned, it is not easy to change your habits and eradicate the negative energy you gain from that sources unfortunately. That’s why before we think to make some searches for what we need and begin to read. Wait and ask yourself if this source is trusted or not!! Do some researches about the author for where he or she belongs to. And then you can build your thoughts and your assessment from viewers while reviewing their comments about the same article that you wish to read. Or you can go through other searches from different sites to get information about the author.
What it has happened to me is that I read an article someday and I then decided to make other searches for self knowledge in a certain study. damn! I later got shocked that what i have read in the past few days compared to wha i read today, it was all contradicted. At the beginning, i was happy because i obtained what i wanted, but i am now upset, because i get a little chaotic.
In a nutshell, you may know what i have encountered and it could be even familiar to all of you, but just wanted to share you this to remind you again about such a type of this situations. My advice, do a research about the author if trustworthy or not, if a trustworthy persons , go for reading their articles and enjoy reading it
Thanks for reading.
Accept the reality.
Accept people as they are.
Accept people’s emotions.
We may expect everyone to treat us well.
We may expect we are perfect.
Expectations are not realistic.
We seek to admiration to us.
You have your own interests.
They have their own interests too.
How good we are.
Flaws are there.
Arbitrary actions are there.
We are not infallible humans.
We sometimes act unfairly.
It is the fact of life.
There is no escape .
It is simple truth.
Despite of this.
Some people don’t accept its simplicity.
We can’t change the fact.
Acceptance is the best way for those who is seeking comforts in their inner soul. It is the truth. We do mistakes and others do mistake too.
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Don’t cry on flower was eaten by little sheep.
Just go on, and forget about it what’s done, it’s done!
The Flower; represents your age where you spent it in the past.
The sheep; represents what’s remaining of your age.
You need to keep going on, as the sheep has eaten it because she need to beat the emptiness of her stomach to avoid death. And grow stronger.
I told you the truth now.
You accept it or not.
It’s the truth.
What are you going to do now.
Unfriend me, it’s ok.
Block me, it’s ok.
Unfollow me, it is ok.
I don’t care anymore.
I all deactivated.
I am not there anymore.
It’s your choice.
I gave this advice.
To avoid a terrible thing may happen to you.
Being little over emotional.
Does not work nowadays.
Does not work either.
Accept it or not.
It’s your responsibility.
Let it be.
Whatever they think about you.
Let it be.
We care not about others’ thoughts.
We care a lot about achieving our goals.
Reaching our dreams is the important.
We spend all the night wakeful.
Our health becomes weak.
Wholeheartedly, we work.
We deserve to be better.
No one thinks, we deserve it.
No need though.
It would be there a time.
Later, your fans will highlight you.
who they care about your talents.
They will come and grab you.
Don’t waste your time looking backwards.
Take their negative words.
And prove the opposite.
Save your energy for better achievement.
You are at the top.
Let them be.
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I have my own styles.
You have your own styles.
Don’t accuse me.
Don’t prejudge me.
You had accused me of doing something.
I knew was incorrect.
You always create struggles.
Much better to separate.
I need my peace of mind.
I try to find a resolution.
No one come to a resolution.
May be, you consider your own place.
As, I need to consider my own place.
To understand my view.
Before, we leave too far away.
I don’t need that to happen.
But, difference in tastes makes struggles.
I can believe that there are many successful individuals do things what separates them from the average. I have just read a short story about a farmer and his two sons; so I am going to write it here for gaining some benefits while reading it , it is really simple and inspiring story, therefore, you will change your life when you just dive deep to understand it. here we go:
A certain farmer had become old and ready to pass his farm down to one of his two sons. When he brought his sons together to speak about it, he told them: The farm will go to the younger son.
The older son was furious! “What are you talking about?!” he fumed.
The father sat patiently, thinking.
“Okay,” the father said, “I need you to do something for me. We need more stocks. Will you go to Cibi’s farm and see if he has any cows for sale?”
The older son shortly returned and reported, “Father, Cibi has 6 cows for sale.”
The father graciously thanked the older son for his work. He then turned to the younger son and said, “I need you to do something for me. We need more stocks. Will you go to Cibi’s farm and see if he has any cows for sale?”
The younger son did as he was asked. A short while later, he returned and reported, “Father, Cibi has 6 cows for sale. Each cow will cost 2,000 rupees. If we are thinking about buying more than 6 cows, Cibi said he would be willing to reduce the price 100 rupees. Cibi also said they are getting special jersey cows next week if we aren’t in a hurry, it may be good to wait. However, if we need the cows urgently, Cibi said he could deliver the cows tomorrow.”
The father graciously thanked the younger son for his work. He then turned to the older son and said, “That’s why your younger brother is getting the farm.”
from the story we can conclude that successful persons are initiative and do go beyond the limitation, they do not do just the job but they do it right and complete unlike those most people who they do only what they are asked like exactly what it had happened for the older son in the mentioned story when he just followed the instructions, whereas the younger brother was enough initiative and intelligent, as he got out of the comfort area, and started turning everything around until he got something good. therefore, his initiation was fulfilled reason that pushed his father to let him handle it. bear it in mind, that most importantly, those who become successful initiate, they reach out to people, ask questions, and turning a lot of ideas until they come with stunning ideas, which it will lead to an effective applications in their life.
In connection with that story, i would like to add one more thing to, you know “serendipity” lol , I just remembered one of a plenty questions that i have been asked by the interviewer when i intended to work in their organisation as an outdoor sales man lol, the interviewer asked me ” are you aggressive?” i flinched why i have to be aggressive and offensive for this job, i think i have to be polite with my potential customer in increase the sales and hit the target, I then hold a loud laughter inside myself Ha Ha Ha. head back to the question, i answered him”yes”, i remember that i tried all the way to convince them to hire me for the job, i turned every idea in my mind, and kept trying to run away of that question, after i got lost between my ideas which it was rounding in my mind, i came out with “initiative” Ha Ha Ha, but i explained them how should be a sales person an initiative person and why he should be like that. Oh my God, the interview took so long done from it, i finally got hired for the job after a conversation went for so long, but you know, it was so worthy to work with them a good reputation, and well established company in the market has. but now to remind you, that i am not working in sales field anymore.
in conclusion, are you initiator? you absolutely can be. but if not! one thing is for certain ” life is not going to wait for you”
so sorry for getting too long in this piece, but it is really worthy to read.
thanks for reading.
Points came to my mind accidentally which it is about pain when it’s connected with growing.
I just remembered situation about pain which i was holding it in feet and arms. You know when we are children, we almost have some questions, we usually want to find out answers for it. However, I got a harsh pain in my feet, consequently, I went to ask mom about what kind of pain that I was having it, ” where is the place of that pain you have” mom asked. I had pointed it out directly to the pain which it existed in the hip-joint area. And then she answered me ” this could naturally happen when growth process occurring to children when they getting taller .” I believed in what she was saying at that moment, I then comfortably left the place for going out to play with the other kids and act like that i do not have that pain, i did not focus that much on that pain. But i just remember that pain was irresistible. But day by day it started getting to diminish until it’s totally gone.
I came through story just to remind ourselves that pain does not stick to us permanently. Second, through pain we can grow.
Yes that’s right with pain we can grow, and it can lead to happiness as well. The more we experienced pain in the past, the more happiness we can get it and through our ability we will be able to appreciate things in life positively. In addition, pain can support us to deal and look for things much better with full attention and being a lot careful to deal with mistakes. if possible to avoid it from happening in the future. Get it?! We can see that later pain can bring joy and happiness to our life and get much careful in dealing with our situations and stuff. Let’s say that pain is a portal to happiness.
All in all, a child can not grow taller without some growing pain- it has to happen.
My message; don’t fight pain, let it help you grow😉.
Thanks for reading.
Everything happens to us in life, there would be a reason behind it.
You don’t need to act angrily, if you stuck in a heavy traffic. You need to think about further consequences positively, because the reason of being stuck in heavy traffic, it might get you away of something negative, it could happen to you. And other example, if you woke up too late, as a result you will be late to attend your job on time, also don’t be bothered, because if you reached on time, you might encounter something unacceptable from your boss, or getting involved with troubles with some customers if you work in retail business. In general, any negative consequences you may face in every organisation. I experienced that of course, i could say it here and no issues for me to mention it to my valued readers, so that they can take some of positive benefits from it. , and get healed from stress, or any negative thoughts it may come to our minds. So this discussion will help you throw your negatives too far away. I hope so! However, I just remembered a situation someday, i woke up too late, regarding that time was my second day of my duty in the company. Oh i got stressed a lot, and started getting so angry oh what i did?!! I got up out of my bed in rush to reach my workplace on time. At the same moment, i took a deep breath, i said to myself, hold up for seconds, what i am doing?!! What about if i reached late, whatever it could happen to me, i will accept it, because it is my fault. I then accepted it because it must be there a bliss behind it. once i started thinking about it positively, i got so calm, directly the stress and angriness faded away. Remember, this technique, it can help you get out of troubles and tress.
Later, i reached the workplace late, the boss asked me to come to his office to discuss about the reason of getting late, and he told me ” you are new employee” and ” you do that” i answered him nicely “what shall i do?!” It was out of my control. He got so upset to me, and told me ” if you did it once again, i will report it to the HR department, that you are not so efficient to work in this store” i was so upset about his reactions, because it might occur like to everyone else, even i am new.
Although, the boss don’t know me well, and do I. It was such a warm deep discussions happened in the office, i studied his reactions at the same while, i could find out that he is good from inside, and i was thinking, that i should not blame him because he was doing his duties as well. I later got fine. However, that moment was a bliss, because i knew what kind of character he has. He is kind and helpful and that’s what it makes me to be aware next time. By the way, i was having a trouble of wakening up too early at that time. Because of that reason, i extremely do not want this to happen to me again, i started practicing to wake up early each day until I overcame it. And now don’t have this issue anymore, it was three blisses in one shot, knowing his character, practicing to wake up early everyday, and feeling the responsibility of my work.
Finally, falling in troubles could be a bliss left behind it. Accept it and act accordingly.
Thanks for reading.
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There is a big difference in procrastination meaning. As we have two types of it;-
The first on is productive procrastination and the second one is unproductive procrastination itself.
I would argue that the productive procrastination is involved with those kind of people who would try to meet their deadlines for doing their tasks on time. But they start so fast and so slow to finish, as they wait until the last minute to get things done. Not to worry about it , as long as the task is going to be finished. But this explanation can not be applied in all individuals, as there are also persons do finish their tasks before time because they value the concept of time, they become more successful to make a balance between personal stuff and professional practical job. Consequently, it will lead them to happiness for what they have achieved, and get themselves fulfilled enough.
On the second hand, the unproductive procrastination is the negative habit when we usually set tasks up to us. It is up to us to impose deadlines, it is up to us to keep ourselves accountable, it is up to us to turn this procrastination to productive. This is very dangerous. Unfortunately, it will take much energy and makes us so tired physically and mentally due to delaying – act but fail to finish it completely. In addition, this habit will affect us passively and keeps us away of thinking our family and other personal stuff. Consequently, it will lead to sadness and depression, because we have not got enough time even for ourselves though.
After, i had worked in different companies, and i passed in a very tough situations, i could come out with ” the more you get successful, the more you have to watch your back” because for every back, there is a knife.
Leave envious people away, just ignore them, and do your job naturally. But you have to avoid trusting them, sharing your mistakes would definitely ruin your personal life and and professional life alike.
Seriously, when i was assistant manager in a company deals with retail business, i got ruined by by manager, although i was doing my job professionally and meeting the deadlines of my job tasks, But the manager never left me alone, he was creating up problems to me. The struggle starts when my area manager was always appreciating my job, after i had done it perfectly, and staff was always appreciating me too , because i was giving for them a hand to help them finish the job as well as i understand the pressure of work that’s how i won their sincerity. Head back to the point, when manager noticed the appreciation of my area manager to me, the manager starts to push poison words to the area manager’s head. Later on, i found out that area manger started changing his attitude against me, anything positive he had about me, it was turned to negative. But how?! I asked myself why and how?! Therefore, my mind began to turn the things out. And i then found that manager is the reason. However, when i got this feeling toward that manager, i started to think how to protect myself from him, because he was trying to get any mistakes and let me get involved in it and report it to the area manager, you know it will be enough approve for the big boss to let him approve the image of what he heard it about me. My team were doing their job, but due to new joiners with low experience, they were corrupting the excellency of job in the store, as for me, i was creating for them excuses, because they still new training staff, but the manager was taking them as an advantage, as a result he was taking photo shots of their job by his cell phone and reporting it directly to the head boss by email, in addition he put me in Cc in the email with the attachment, but due to getting my team staff’s trust, they were informing me in advance that the current manager was taking photos for the shelves of the storage area, consequently i know what he will do with it, and due to his negative behaviours, i was thinking how to protect myself and what to reply by email in case the area manager how he will react when he opens the inbox and sees the photos, overall i made myself ready for further replying in case if he replied. I will end up here to prevent this post from getting too long.
The message; you have to protect yourself from envious people when you have them around at your workplace. To be continued!
Thanks for reading!
Stop building horrifying mental scenarios about what it might happen if you fail.
I believe that fear has a positive side in our life, if we think precisely that it takes away from dangerous situations that it might put us at risk. Remember! We should have balanced fear, because too much fear leads to limit our thinking and limit our life too. And it can turn into major obstacles and difficulties to success.
Well, at the beginning of one stage of my life stages, i was too careless through my school’s matters, never care about my studying, never did my homework which it had been assigned by our teachers on daily basis , noting that i was in 5th grade. Therefore, i was not doing my homework when I go to school next day, while teachers were checking out students’ assignments during the class. Later, they found out that i did not do my homework as per requested for the whole year not for one or two days only, Definitely, it has affected on me a lot, led me to stay at the same grade for the next year, not getting to next grade which I shall be in 6th grade, i got crying too much, when i got the results at the end of that year, as my ex classmates had passed the grade successfully, and promoted to sixth grade, but for me i stayed at the same class. However, at this point, i decided to change everything in my life to prevent this situation from happening again to me.
In that light, the concept of fear did not exist in my life’s dictionary, and do not know what kind of feeling, I will get when fear comes to me. But because of fear of failure that feeling started emerging, in a result, i took this fear as a positive means to support me for going to next levels of my life. As i began to have my responsibilities seriously and not to try be careless anymore due to what it had happened to me previously. Of course, i promised myself not make it happen again. Hence, i started studying hard because i do not want that bad feelings to come back again, it was really disturbing me and it has affected me negatively. Anyway, i use fear in my studying period and get it into my side positively until i succeeded in all stages of my studying. And i finally did it.
That’s why i counted fear is a great technique to help me success. As Fear should not be too much, but in a feasible way is acceptable. But you need to know that you can take fear in every field not specifically in studying, i know you know that, but i just wanted to remind you!
Replace negative fear into positive fear, and enjoy your success. As i mentioned in one of my previous posts, thoughts are choices.
What i have learnt in my life!
Well, we sometimes have our thoughts, and we believe that our thoughts are our own choices, we act it according to specific people only , so we should not take it personally, if i meant to criticise anyone, it does not mean, i had criticised the whole people, it has just involved for group of people not going further the whole population.! I believe that there are people better than me around the world. So we are not allowed to restrain thoughts of others, they might have messages to certain people only, in addition, we have the freedom of expressing our thoughts,Get it?!!
However, judging others from their posts according to your perspectives, it is not a professional way, so be open minded and not try to take it personally, and get hurt from nothing as long as you are not the mentioned in the post so who is concerned about it?! If you like it, just express your opinions, if you don’t like it, just throw it away. Hell! I am not responsible about how the way you the think, i am just responsible about what i wrote it only. Hence, making yourself smart enough, and start analysing things the way you like, it means you are not looking for things from different lens, furthermore, analysing things from one angle, will reflect that you have a narrowed mind. I think, we have to train ourselves to get a look on things widely from different angles to avoid judging others in bad for no reasons.
So why i need to insult others as long as i don’t know them, or even they don’t know me. Finally, i behave according to the person who is in front of me, i deal with only, as per the person’s outcomes, i reflect, that’s it. Bear it in mind, i am not responsible about the way you think. Or else, you are going to be counted as sick mentally, if you take everything personally. In that light , I hate to deal to deal these kinds of mentalities, also they judge before clarifying things up. That’s what it makes sick. I think, those kinds have to be switched off from our life. Or else, they have to change their way of thinking.
Understand others before you JUDGE!!
Be careful you guys when you need to share something with your colleagues at your workplace about certain thing you intend to do it in the future to score higher place in your work. Because the ideas which you have it, they might not think about it all or it did not come into their mind, as a result they may fed you up, because they don’t want you to change, as it may look inconvenient for them, In this view, they may see it brilliant thoughts comes out from you, consequently, it may lead to a better transformation at your career. However, if you really need to share it, try to engage it, no problems, but you need to be carefully while choosing the proper people who you really feel that they really want to support you in that, let’s say that it would be sort of like small circle of supporters, this will probably look like conversations with mentors and close friends.
In addition, give yourself the freedom to brainstorm and to not commit to any particular new direction immediately.
Finally, be very careful to whom you share your ideas and how much you share with colleagues if you are not thoroughly committed to a shift. Envious persons are a lot, they will try to set you back, if they found out that you are going to do better than them.
Never give up, you might be closer to achieve your goal.
Don’t be too quick for giving up and take the easy out. Reaching ones goal needs a hard work. If you still want something, keep fighting for it. That doesn’t mean that you can’t change your goals. If you decide you don’t want something anymore — truly change your desires it’s acceptable to move on to fight another battle instead. Do mistakes but never quit. Kindly, see the attached photo It’s the story of two men who stopped just three feet from finding the gold they were digging for, and you then can understand what i mean exactly.
Lastly, Don’t give up just because you’re tired and yearning for something easier to do. Don’t betray yourself. Feel your desire. Plan and work toward your goal. Show persistence. Don’t recognize failure. Ignore failure. Keep fighting. Persist until you win.
You do not need to get any single thought too seriously. Why?! Because your mind is a lot like a mental playground constantly generating and experimenting with new solutions and new ideas. Therefore, no single thought can possibly define you. So you had a scary and negative ideas, or image or dream. No big deal!!! It is just your mind playing around with new ideas.
You have to remember !!! You do not necessarily get to choose your thoughts. Our mind has plenty of ideas why we always try to choose the bad one. Hence, we are the only one who would choose whatever we want which we want to act on and reflect.
We sometimes feel people that they need to take us wherever they want, it is like they need to take us into the direction which they really like or they what they believe in honestly.
Humans have different mindset which it differs from person to person either in abilities or thoughts. So we don’t have to allow them to manipulate with our thoughts and perspectives. As we have our own character, i think if we want an independent life with our actions, we shall eliminate them from our life, they might be a reason for holding us back instead of progress.
However, believing in yourself would change your life into better and your path would be seen in a clear vision, i could count those who are trying to control us by their thoughts like a fog as a result, they will block our vision from what we want to see.
Finally, if they find that their actions and thoughts helped them to success into their life, it does not mean, it would support us to success, because human’s mind, abilities , and power differs, that’s how we have been created. By the way, if we act with other people’s interference , what’s our role will be?
Be you, the world will adjust.
Guys! Want your valued views with regards to this post, and thank you so much to all of you.
Stop overanalysing things which it is useless. It is just waste of time and energy, as you have to work out on things which it gives positive results. In addition, you have to stay away of negative thoughts that tell how bad your ideas are. So work on minimising procrastination, which it may affect on your personal potential and expanding your imaginations. Do not postpone your life’s work…Ok?!!
Focus on getting stuff done, and getting results. Progress is the ultimate motivation, the real world rewards are those who get things done not the perfectionist. It is ok, make mistakes, and fall in obstacles, we are not perfect. The most important is that we need our goal to be progress not perfection. Remember, our obstacles will guide us definitely. By the way, if you have something extra ordinary, share it with the rest of the world, don’t be afraid!!. But be ready and adapt yourself that you will get criticised a lot, because people judge what they don’t understand and can not comprehend. Not everyone see the thing the way you do, you have to add this note into your account ok?!! So it is ok if they don’t accept it,,because you are not seeking for their approval for your stuff, however don’t let them stop you from thinking, so act bigger and get closer to your life’s calling. What about if i fail?
It is ok, fear of fail is inevitable but it is not fatal, so you are not your failure. Don’t get stuck!!! The more new situations you expose yourself, the more opportunities you have. It is a way to discover unknown aptitudes. Finally, failure is not a sign of permanent trouble, but merely as a sidestep on the path to success.
Do not stop due to the passive thoughts.
I really need to share you something is a bit funny here.
finally,Be humble and grateful for whatever you have, people’s opinions would be a poison, if we will not know how to deal with it.
Th reason why we fail is to unlock our inner power is because of our limited knowledge of who we really are. And how our mind could block our vision and create obstacles which it does not exist at all.
It is so sad to see how our minds can mess with us. What fear, worry and doubt does to us. What losing our power does to us. What losing our spirit does to us.
It robs us of our success, it robs us of our confidence, it robs us of our joy.
But, remember nothing can stop you from anything you want in life except your own MIND. So what is the solution?!!!
The answer is simply and easy; access your inner power so you can conquer your mind.
Warning!!! Don’t be the victim of your mind.
Search for your deep inner peace.
If you look for a room to grow , life has two choices. Firstly, comfortable choice–safe. Secondly, uncomfortable choice–risky. You always choose the risky choice, because it is the one will teach us the most, and the most will make us grow. That’s the one you have to choose, as it will change our life to better. By the way, taking a step for making a decision does not have to be a life or death, simply it is just choice that it helps us to gain self-trust, so just do it to get it . However, don’t pick up the safe choice, and get out of your comfort zone to boost your life much better, as a result, further positive results will come later, and then you notice how your life will be better in your in transition.
Finally, do it without overthinking. Remember that our mind is the lazy one not our body, it depends on how you look to things from different views.
Your comfort zone➡️where your magic happens.
Hope you doing all well!
I am Hussein Allam, i have not been blogging for a while, because i was really busy.
Success always hugs you in private, but failure slaps you in public that’s life unfortunately.
I don’t know why we would not be thanked for the success which we have achieved, it looks like something is invisible, but when it comes to failure, it comes visible to everyone who is around you. It is something contradictory. But never mind, be honest and true for what you doing, that’s only how we could reinforce our abilities by thinking positively, it is a way which it keeps us alive, so the aspect of hope is there but know how to live with it.
Doing something is almost always better than not doing anything. If we fail, it is Ok, no worries Of course, we know 100% that doing something could lead to mistakes,but mistakes are a part of life. It’s how we learn. Without mistakes, we would never get better and reach our determined destination. So don’t worry about those. Just do something. Get off your butt😉. and get active physically, or active by taking steps to accomplish something.
But be careful, i did not mean to wear Nike or Adidas’ shoes for fitting your feet to make you ready for healthier running. 😉
People whom we work with, they have a big impact in our life either bad or good.
When we surround ourselves with people who work harder, we would change ourselves to be like them accordingly. It is important to have peers in a job who push you succeed, if you found them, hang them around, never try to lose them just keep them.
As for me, i have worked in different environments from retail business to education department in my country, it relates to governmental sector. as i dealt with different kinds of mentalities. In addition, i met people with full of disappointments, but i never hear for what they say, i act like a deaf, silent, because if interacted with them, i will be infected by their diseases, it is human’s nature, you can be infected spontaneously with no awareness of that. But now i work with kids-little boys, having fun all time, i love that feeling when i see the honesty and the innocence appear on their face, and even they dont know how to lie, they always say the truth whatever they say, i believe them , as well as when they show their love to you, and they say “i love you ” i dont know what the type of feelings i get when i hear that word from them. However, be careful of being talkative with those kinds of sick minded people, you might get their negative thoughts and be like them either as i mentioned earlier, it is human’s nature to get infected easily. In that light , i go to my job and stay focused for what i am going to do in a hand for the day since morning until the end of my duty, i try as much as i can never share my decisions with others, if my work requires to work independently. By the way, i look to things from angles not only one, i even can look to harder tasks to easier.
How beautiful to get the trust from young people the same way you get it from little kids.
When kids trust you, they will never have any doubts that you are going to take them to the wrong direction, so when they love you, they will give you love because this is what they all have. Consequently, they will always feel more comfortably towards you, as they will be more careful to keep what bothering you away. Therefore, they will be ready to hide their eyes by a piece of cloth, and hold your hand with an open heart. It is like when you tend to give them a present and you request them to cover their vision, and ask them to open it when you are done from preparing the gift for them. You know why they closed the eyes when it is requested , because they absolutely know, you will take them to the right direction. In addition , they will not get bothered if you ordered them to hide their eyes, but they will keep smiling and the happiness covers all of their face, because they know that you are going to hand them a surprise to make them happier, all of that come from a trust which they have given it to you.
While most of the adults are getting things wrong, they will never think positive, even you are their friend, they think “trust” is just a concept they hear about, but they dont think this word is a practical concept, that we should work on, so why we are friends, if we dont give the trust for each other the same way when children give it to adults.
Finally, if we know what trust is meant for, we will sort out many problem. in addition, we will be closet to each other. Life with no trust, it is like a fire when it burns everything.
Peace, Hussein Allam
Don’t be a quitter, and quit whenever the going gets tough.
When it happens to you, just remember a great achievement which you have done it in the past and got congratulated by people. By this means, you will be able to have the strength to face everything, recording nice and big achievements into your notes, it will give a tremendous positive results and know how to finish things via your experience from the past which you passed on. On this way, it gives the motivation of proving to yourself to achieve what you have set out to achieve.
So, shut off the negative self-talk which it always tells you to stop, it could occur when you are in pain, and your mind get filled with negatives and then it overwhelms you to stop again. Hence, you have to maintain a positive self-talk and let your mind focus on success only. Just imagine how you will feel after you finished the task successfully. However, don’t be easy for giving up towards your future, do the impossible and go beyond your limits.
Finally, i am going to share you something through my experience. It is all about state of mind, if you convince your mind that you can do something, you will do it. But if you can not do it, just deceive your mind that you can do it and then you will do it though. It is just alteration process, change negative with positive, i know it is not an easy task, but with practice you can adapt accordingly.
Remember! Pain is temporary but glory is forever. And everything in life that is worth something requires hard work to achieve it. Many things seem are impossible to achieve, but they are actually not. So it requires a lot of efforts so that it can be done. Get out of the comfort zone, nothing is easy, but if you believe it, then you can achieve it.
Do the best of you at your job, and don’t care about what others say about you!
This the true meaning of self confidence, however, being self confident is the key of your success. So don’t look back of you and listen for what other people say about you. Okay?!
Keep moving forward!
There are some people when they are in a bad mood, they talk to you politely, even they are full of disappointment, full of anger, and those type of people whom we should respect and deserve our respect. While others are like trash truck, they try to drain it on you. Be careful, to be that trash truck and throw it in your home, streets, and your colleagues. Because you are not the only one in the whole world has this garbage, there are a large number of people have what they have. And it is enough!!!!
When it is hard to talk…
It is up to us to listen…
There was a one lady called 911 after she felt that there was a strange entered her home in the midnight. During the call, one of the policemen has picked up the call, and she ordered Pizza with pepperoni. Therefore, the officer answered “mom you are calling the wrong number” she repeated the order again, “i need to order pizza with pepperoni”. Asked her” if is there any something threat your live” and told her to answer by ” yes or no only” she said ” yes and see you soon” as a result, he asked her ” to act normal” as he is going to check around any police officer near by her home immediately. And she ended the call.
So listening is an art, we have to develop our listening skills, as it is going to help us solving a lot of problems. During that conversation, look how the officer has managed the situation without going to deep details and understood her. I think, we have to learn how we could go through this situation and managing it as well in our daily life!
If you saw a man cry, you have to make sure that man’s pain has reached the summit of a mountain.
Get angry whenever you want, go wherever you want, and go whenever you want. inevitably, days will come back some day. And you then will know what’s the true meaning of sincerity.
They say that silence is a sign for accepting other people’s opinion.
As for me, No! It should not be like that, your hand five fingers’ are not equal by its size. So the size of each finger of your hand is different from one to another. Hence, this would be applied on human thoughts, people are not the same by thoughts. In that light, if someone tend to say his opinion, and other party might keep silent, in a result we should not judge that he accepted it. Smartly, other individuals refuse to share their ideas, even you said right, they might have different perspectives, so they might not agree for what you have discussed it.
Finally, silence is not always a sign for accepting. It could be refused but they don’t want to tell, because other stupids comprehend it differently that you are against them something like that. Or they might not have the enough words to convey it to you nicely.
Please, you don’t force them to accept, make them free to say if they want only.
A: are you ok?
B: yes i am completely ok.
B’s inner sound: no i am not ok, i am too tired.
B: what about you, A?!
A: I am ok too.
B’s inner sound says: i wish, i could be like A
A’s inner sound says: i wish, i can feel like you when i am ok.
This is the truth unfortunately, we act like we are ok. but actually, we don’t. At the end, they are equal by results.
But keep it in mind, to whom we love, we can feel them. Even they did not say the truth to us. Look, how our beloved ones do not want to share us their pain to avoid disturbing us. As a result, we lie on each other.
Due to the hardest times we live daily , do not be so cruel like a piece of wood , you then will be broken, and do not be so lenient, you then will be squeezed.
Only be mild!
In the 4th century AD a sanctuary, mentioned by the pilgrim nun Egeria, was built on Mount Nebo (Fasaliyyeh in Arabic) to honor Moses, possibly on the site of an even older structure. The church was finished by 394 AD and had three east apses flanked by funerary chapels on the north and south sides.
In the 6th century, the church was enlarged and transformed into a basilica with a sacristy and new baptistery (whose surviving floor mosaics date from c.530 AD). Soon the church was the heart of a large monastery and pilgrimage center that would thrive for nearly six centuries.
The site was abandoned by 1564 and remained mostly neglected for several centuries more. Finally, in 1993, the site was purchased by the Franciscans, who excavated and restored the area. On March 19, 2000, Pope John Paul II visited the site during his pilgrimage to the Holy Land, planting an olive tree next to the Byzantine chapel for peace.
Today, Mount Nebo is an active Franciscan monastery, the headquarters of the Franciscan Archaeological Institute, and a popular stop for pilgrims and tourists alike.
mosaic madaba mapinside St George Church madaba jordanKnown as the ‘City of Mosaics’ Madaba is famous for the 6th century Byzantine mosaic map of the Holy Land. A 25 x 5 meter masterpiece made of over 2 million pieces. The map shows holy sites, hills, valleys, towns and cities as far away as the Nile Delta! The map is on the floor of the modern St George Greek Orthodox Church which is built on the site of an older 6th century church.
Jordan is committed to restoring and preserving it’s mosaics, you can see how this is done by visiting the Mosaic School in the Archaeological Park and Museum. women restoring mosaicspromised land view mount nebo jordanAlso in the park are the remains of several churches and a 6th century mansion, all with more outstanding mosaics.
Close by is Mount Nebo, believed to be the burial place of Moses. It was a place of pilgrimage for early Christians and the first church was built here in the 4th century. Stand at the top of the mountain as Moses did when he first saw the Promised Land and enjoy the breathtaking views of the Jordan Valley, The Dead Sea, Jerusalem and Jericho.
Have a look on the attached photos;-
Monut nebo summit to the south;/
Inner design for the church on mount Nebo
Never let you children grow up on something nothing exists, so that they can grow healthily, telling them the truth will support them for understanding life concepts much better. As the result, they will know how to deal with life. As telling them fakes and lies will destroy them and affect their future passively.
However, building their character will require the courage from you by informing them everything about life, because that will reinforce their abilities to accept life.
Finally, be the best model for them, as children do what they learn.
Don’t forget one thing, children imitate.
It is stupid to satisfy all people about all things, in the purpose of having them as friends, we have to go against what’s wrong by avoiding saying YES all the time. And standing right next to the right side. when it comes to me, i do not worry when i have enemies in my work or any other place at all. Having had enemies is aprrove for you that you are such successful person.
I have heared someone talking about people who have a character one day. I saw it much interesting, i could believe for what he said ” a man with character, he has enemies” but ” the man with no character is loser” as i could believe totally for what he said at that time. Therefore, i noticed while my working journey abroad and in my country alike, that successful people mostly get struggled from those jealousy colleagues at work who are around and so close to them , they always create traps to let them fall in it. It seems, wherever you go, you may find individuals have these concepts ” i do not want to see others better than me” as for me, when i see those kinds of people, i pay attention for everything i do, i try to avoid making mistakes, if i did a mistake, i will report it directly to who responsible about me, because if i hid it, any of my oppenets will report it. Hence, i keep everything visible. Opponents their wish to find faults by watching you all the time, and then report it, so make advance decision and you yourself report it before they do it–be faster than them for reporting this, because managment may understand it passively, and will try to fire you by any chance, so BE CAREFUL. and finally, your oppenets will take your position after you got fired. After all, these struggles and fights that successful people may see daily in the purpose of taking their position at the company.
In brief, the way to maintain your success by being always straight and clear. It is the way how you can defeat them.
When we try to keep ourselves away from problems, we try to do that as much as we can. But it seems problems are the one coming to us. Although we are walking in the straight path. I do not know why do people like to create problems for us even we did not do anything for them. Therefore, this is the only question that i could not find an answer for it.
Honestly! If you guys encounter like this situation, How would you deal with it?
May almighty God gives for us the strength to face it. And put up a limit for these stupidity.
Wadi Rum is a protected desert wilderness in southern Jordan. It features dramatic sandstone mountains like the many-domed Jebel Um Ishrin, and natural arches such as Burdah Rock Bridge. Many prehistoric inscriptions and carvings line rocky caverns and steep chasms, such as Khazali Canyon. The natural watering hole of Lawrence’s Spring is named after British soldier Lawrence of Arabia, who allegedly washed there.
As for me, i like camping, watching sunset, and hiking the dunes of Wadi Rum😉👌
Whereas, we can find that there were a lot of fimls were filmed here in Jordan here we go;-
Why do you talk and your nose up?
This is the most where we get hurt, and where learn better.
Finally, you will wear a piece of white cloth when you finally stop breathing.
Live the moment, and be humble.
Every little things you have will worth the journey.
I got random thoughts and do not know how to begin? But i will try to be within the circle while writing.
If you see a wrong situation, will you take an action?! People with healthy mind would answer by YES! i would take an action for eliminating this epidemic from happening again, not only a simple one, but i will go through the hardest punishment against someone who break any rules of the policy.
Because if we dont take a strong action, people will do it one more time, cosequently it will spread and you then will not know how to deal with it, as well as it will go bigger and bigger. Why?! Because there was not taken any acitions seriously and no penality has been taken against the people who made the mistake.
I am one of those who are straight and being so clear while talking, i dont talk with puzzles. Make a foggy conversation. It is just straight and clear to transfer the message to the concerned person. I am really so strict person. I can not pass everything easily, as i have to go through a deep observation through things, not normal stuff but on things when i really feel kind of responsiblity on it.
However, ignoring is a good way to comfort yourself for temporary moments only, but later you will find that you destroy everything because of those who break the rules–i mean in rules, it is just in general in any fields of works. Mess will increase and it will be harder to organise it again. It is like doing your stuff on the way you like, and you have forgotten that it must be there a policy and rules that we should follow.
I hope, it was not random, and this piece of writing is totally clear.
I finally have attached a photo contains a message in it. Feel free to ask me, if you are unable to read it what’s written in the attached photo of my post. Note;-this photo was downloaded from Pinterest!
Turkish coffee, which is served thick and muddy, is spiced with cardamom and you’ll find it at restaurants, street food stalls, and gas stations. There’s also Arabic coffee, but Turkish style coffee is more popular in Jordan, and I like it better because it’s stronger.
Losers are divided into two parts;-
The first part;- think without performing.
The second part;- perform without thinking.
No growth in performance can be seen, if you could be classified within the two parts. As a result, performances need actions with executions and not only talk. Talking is easy for us to do it. But actions are hard to find who apply it. In my point of view, performance can be measured by our acitions.
In a nutshell, I am going to get full of hearing empty conversations. But I am hungry to see actions.
Losers say that winners win by luck.
As for me; i say No, No, No!!!
Because i believe that behind each success there are tries, hard work, failures, actions, and plans.
All my best of luck for those who work so hard for achieving their goals. And never look back to what people talk and say.
All in all, behind each success will be a story.
Lemon mint juice is a popular drink in Jordan and throughout Jordan’s parts that includes lots of lemon juice, blended with mint, and ice, and can range from extremely sweet, to barely sweet at all. The lemon should be so strong that it makes you squint a little on your first sip, and the mint complements the strong lemon sourness so well.
The lemon mint you can find whereever you go in Jordan, as this drink is a little on the sweet side for me, i dont know for you it might be either sour or sweet, you can judge after you drink 😁but it is very good, and very refreshing.😋⛹️
4 lemons, plus slices for garnish
3 limes, plus slices for garnish
1/3 cup fresh mint leaves
3/4 cup superfine sugar, plus additional if desired, divided
8 cups cold water
Squeeze the juice from the lemons and limes over a strainer into a glass measuring cup (about 1 cup of juice).
In the bottom of a tall pitcher, use a wooden spoon to gently mash the mint leaves with 1/4 cup of the sugar. Add the strained juice; stir well to dissolve the sugar. Add the cold water and the remaining 1/2 cup sugar to the pitcher; stir well to dissolve the sugar. Taste for sweetness and add more sugar, if desired. Chill before serving.
Serve poured over ice in tall glasses garnished with lemon and lime slices.
Enjoy it! 😉
Be in the lives of others like granulated sugar, if you had disappeared someday, you would have left a nice taste in their mouth when they remember you.
Every year I put plans before I welcome the new year, but at first of this year 2019, I did not set goals for achieving anything.
You know what the reason is, because I am not achieving anything except of getting older year by year, responsibilities are increasing and thrown over my own shoulders. Nevertheless, I am not such a type of person who is easy to give up, but things are running in a different way. I know that it would be sometimes for our own best, it could be something there that it turns us away from our directions for something we are not aware of it, in other words, it might be for our own good.
However, plans and goals you put must be there something to support for what you have already set without it we can not do anything except one thing to find “Aladdin’s the magic lamp” and rubbing it and then later ask for our wishes. If I found Aladdin the magic lamp, I would ask for my wish to send me to another country where I can find out my future there and seek for better life, I would have three wishes, I asked for one and the two left, I don’t want them.
The truth is when resources are available, we will be ready to do whatever we want for growth. Though, I am still dreaming, my dreams have never turned out to reality.
I don’t know in what kind of shape we could receive an advice from others?!
The first advice comes either on shape of constructive criticise or destructive criticise. I think if we wanna avoid any kind of misunderstanding we should take a measurement for any kinds of advice when we need to give it, it should be within a principles and a specific criterion with specifics location and a certain time.
I believe that some advices take you away from your original personality and hinder the way you act freely.
ACT THE WAY YOU ARE, AND THE WAY YOU LIKE, THEY LIKE YOU OR NOT ( IT’S UP TO THEM) DON’T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY BECAUSE OF RUBBISH PEOPLE.
Why we need to feel that we are always wrong towards our feeling and thoughts? And why others feel that they are always correct, and never accept other people opinion. If they don’t accept, they start giving advices to reprogram your mind and attitude the way they like, so it would be easier for them to control you.
If you wanna live comfortable, broaden your mind, not as you want the way to think only, understand other parts perspectives before you judge and give an advice, Damn!
Why I need to have a fake personality and look ideal, and later you be surprised about acts and behaviours, if you accept the way I am, you are welcome.
What you think about it ?!
Thanks for reading!
We could definitely gain creativity, if we just went against the flow of stream, as it has positive impact to turn us from consumers to productive. But if we go with the flow of stream, it means we want to stay in our comfort zone, and never think to get out of it, in this light, we will always stay as consumers not productive.
Our minds is about to switch off from its purpose, we have to believe in our mind. So make your own way and enjoy life.
No, No, No!
Creativity by hiding their ” hate ” to you, Oh malicious, don’t you know you’re burning yourself. Don’t you know ” hate ” shortens life, therefore it takes you far away from happiness.
You must believe that joy and happiness exist under these clear words ” being able to love ( others ) what you love for yourself.”
How do you guys manage malicious individuals who show love and respect only in front of you, but at your back, they’re something else.
I would love to hearing your answers in my comment section below!
Thanks for reading.
Just click ” SAVE ” to beautiful memories, and ” CANCEL” to get rid of the negative past to have a brighter future, instead of going into spiraling loop of depressions, and keep decreasing and increasing distances from the center point. But finally, you achieve nothing but getting worse. Forgetting is a great way to make replacement for old one by making no space for trash. You know what?! If you constantly do that, your brain will become full of happy moments, consequently, you will be busy in remembering it with a smile in your face, it will make others wonder how strong you are! whereas no time you may get to be sad.
Remember, keep deleting your passive old times until your memory becomes full so your brain later will find no space to save bad things anymore. Practice until you make it a habit.
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I sometimes laugh to hide the accumulated pain in me, because I don’t want others feel that I am sad, showing up my tears will make them feel sadder and worse than they are. Although, my emotions keep shredding inside of me. Keeping my pain secret will help me to survive but it is still painful.
Our self learning aspect can be triggered, if we depend on ourselves only. Mr. google is there for you anytime. It is not monopolizing any single information for any specific person, it is ready to provide you any information whenever and wherever you are.
Soul search, analyze, review and assess are great for self growth in all aspects of life. Particularly, for what we have passion on.
It is incredibly amazing to see those people with a sharp mind are using a golden technique by expressing and covering much in few words. Those like to highlight the important points and hate long explanations. I can figure out, they have sort of a rare merits in their personalities. In addition, brief and concise forms are their natural behaviours. Let it alone for those who gained it beyond years are totally amazing.
One word or two words are enough to let you understand.
Stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you.
You hurt me so bad, you hurt my heart. You killed my trust. I knew, I could be strong enough to let go. You changed me to better thank you. I am the only who knows how much you hurt me, but it is ok, i learned a great lesson, but here i am now healing. I sometimes feel thankful for such these kinds of mistakes, I knew now how to be careful while choosing next time.