Happy and unhappy individuals are the same but it differs in how we receive things and explain it out by ourselves!
We could see a lot of individuals do their best to look the best and the coolest one ever to their partners.
Here is the biggest mistake it could ever happen to you, it will take you too far away from your reality. Though, behaving too kind or like an angel will affect you later. Since in practical life, everything will appear on its real nature- your real behaviours. At my side, I would like to behave naturally leaving away from being disguised as of an angel. Therefore, everything will taste good for you. You know why?! Because you stay as you are and whoever likes you will for sure stay with you. And others who are unable to bear your hard or passive actions will ultimately leave you, Don’t forget that it is going to return for you in good things for avoiding such many obstacles in the coming future. Noting, no one is an angel, each one of us has passive and positive actions, as we are human. It means, we are fallible, so no one is perfect, put it in your mind.
However, this topic will take too long to cover everything which it relates to humans’ behaviours. But I would like to cover as much as I can in this blog. Heading back to the point, we know if we behave naturally, it will be much much better and who accepted to continue life with its sweetness and bitterness it will be so great. In contrary, if you got lucky and had your partner, that one would understand you and be happy to live with. Remember, everything has a limit. Humans are not stable by their actions. It is true they accepted you, but as soon as they accept you they later change, and start breaking your inner peace and insulting you for being you are a hard one to live with, then they usually separate. For being hard and irrational or whatever they may claim about you. In this case, your dignity will start getting down. I don’t think we could all agree with this point for letting others make our dignity too low. Oh! There is also an important point wanted it to cover up here before wrapping this post up. For those who are like snakes they become nice at the very beginning and suddenly transformed into monsters. They could probably explode into your face like a bomb after being you discovered them late. You then shock and don’t know what to do later. I know we have values which it won’t allow us to do bad things to them but I think we should get low to reach their level and show them what’s not expected, in the purpose of putting a limit and saving your face.
Finally, don’t be so lenient and don’t be so hard, stay in between. This is how you can gain respect never mind how much it will cost you.
Written from the bottom of my heart.
I don’t know in what kind of shape we could receive an advice from others?!
The first advice comes either on shape of constructive criticise or destructive criticise. I think if we wanna avoid any kind of misunderstanding we should take a measurement for any kinds of advice when we need to give it, it should be within a principles and a specific criterion with specifics location and a certain time.
I believe that some advices take you away from your original personality and hinder the way you act freely.
ACT THE WAY YOU ARE, AND THE WAY YOU LIKE, THEY LIKE YOU OR NOT ( IT’S UP TO THEM) DON’T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY BECAUSE OF RUBBISH PEOPLE.
Why we need to feel that we are always wrong towards our feeling and thoughts? And why others feel that they are always correct, and never accept other people opinion. If they don’t accept, they start giving advices to reprogram your mind and attitude the way they like, so it would be easier for them to control you.
If you wanna live comfortable, broaden your mind, not as you want the way to think only, understand other parts perspectives before you judge and give an advice, Damn!
Why I need to have a fake personality and look ideal, and later you be surprised about acts and behaviours, if you accept the way I am, you are welcome.
What you think about it ?!
Thanks for reading!
It is incredibly amazing to see those people with a sharp mind are using a golden technique by expressing and covering much in few words. Those like to highlight the important points and hate long explanations. I can figure out, they have sort of a rare merits in their personalities. In addition, brief and concise forms are their natural behaviours. Let it alone for those who gained it beyond years are totally amazing.
One word or two words are enough to let you understand.
You hurt me so bad, you hurt my heart. You killed my trust. I knew, I could be strong enough to let go. You changed me to better thank you. I am the only who knows how much you hurt me, but it is ok, i learned a great lesson, but here i am now healing. I sometimes feel thankful for such these kinds of mistakes, I knew now how to be careful while choosing next time.
I am puzzled for how to deal with all kinds of people. You go with them right, they take you left. This is the reality!
All I know about life that it gives and with other it takes.
Kind people are mostly exposed to exploitation due to their white heart and good acts alike. As well as they are ready to help others at anytime
Who knows us well, will understand us well.
So stop putting justifications for those types of people who don’t believe us. ( SAVE YOUR TIME AND MOVE FORWARD )
The lesson which you can possibly learn it from others, is much better than learning it at your own.
Because, learning things from our own could cost us a lot. However, find opportunities for yourself for listening to others, definitely it will relieve you and let you avoid different kinds of obstacles. As you should expand your perspective to life and how hard it is.
Don’t be that bucket when it comes to a man wants to fill it in whatever he wants and leave.