In today’s morning during the first class, I was with my students at the classroom. One of the students just raised his hand to ask for permission so that I can allow him to talk. Then it happened, I allowed him to talk after giving him my permission.
However, after going beyond the reason of raising his hand. He has told me that he dreamt in a nightmare. He asked me If he could share it with me, I said ” yes, please! You could share it with me and whatever you want”and I then asked him ” what kind of nightmares you dreamt?” He told me ” I dreamt that mum has passed away.” He just wanted to confirm If this dream would become true or not, because he had heard that some of our dreams we may have, it could come true. This innocent little boy was so afraid that it may happen to his mother so the reason let him share it with me that he was afraid about his mum. You know, I am so friendly with my students, they feel comfortable with me. I think , that’s why he liked to share it with. Therefore, my students like me so much, they like to open up everything personal to me. Head back to the point, this kid started crying when he told me so , he made me cry though. I just wanted to give him a hug, but I was so afraid, it might be there someone else would misunderstand me wrong. As you guys know, as teachers we must keep a gap between students according for what it is happening nowadays. As a result, I did not know what to do next except telling him that nightmares happen to everyone else, this is normal, and what you dreamt in, it won’t come true to alleviate this passive feelings and thoughts which it was thrown over his shoulders. I was so sad about him. He also made me rethink of my mother. Oh! how life makes us so busy about our families and we never care about them that much like before the time they need us , and how hard turned our heart into stones, as we may not even get affected if we heard that we lost one of our dearest. This poor child changed me a lot.
Finally, I tried to cover up basic points in this blog, hope you guys got it. I wrote it so quick to keep it as reminder to remind myself first and then you guys that we have to check out our family from time to time.
Give them some of your time, they spent their lifetime caring of you until you have grown up.
I don’t know in what kind of shape we could receive an advice from others?!
The first advice comes either on shape of constructive criticise or destructive criticise. I think if we wanna avoid any kind of misunderstanding we should take a measurement for any kinds of advice when we need to give it, it should be within a principles and a specific criterion with specifics location and a certain time.
I believe that some advices take you away from your original personality and hinder the way you act freely.
ACT THE WAY YOU ARE, AND THE WAY YOU LIKE, THEY LIKE YOU OR NOT ( IT’S UP TO THEM) DON’T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY BECAUSE OF RUBBISH PEOPLE.
Why we need to feel that we are always wrong towards our feeling and thoughts? And why others feel that they are always correct, and never accept other people opinion. If they don’t accept, they start giving advices to reprogram your mind and attitude the way they like, so it would be easier for them to control you.
If you wanna live comfortable, broaden your mind, not as you want the way to think only, understand other parts perspectives before you judge and give an advice, Damn!
Why I need to have a fake personality and look ideal, and later you be surprised about acts and behaviours, if you accept the way I am, you are welcome.
What you think about it ?!
Thanks for reading!
I sometimes laugh to hide the accumulated pain in me, because I don’t want others feel that I am sad, showing up my tears will make them feel sadder and worse than they are. Although, my emotions keep shredding inside of me. Keeping my pain secret will help me to survive but it is still painful.
Stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you.
Kind people are mostly exposed to exploitation due to their white heart and good acts alike. As well as they are ready to help others at anytime
For the past three days, I have learned a very big lesson.
Whoever are afraid to move on, is the same one who afraid to take the decision to move on. The concept of fear is responsible for holding us back and reject the concept of development of ourselves at the same moment.
It is so sad when you leave all the choices, and you do not even take one decision to move on. And then you come out with nothing—neither you took a decision nor you took one choice.
I wish, I had learned this lesson in life since long long time.
“Not to strictly be attached to anyone at all” but anyway, thanks for them, because I learned it now. So in the future, i can avoid many big consequences, it may happen! I believe that we sometimes pay costs for what we have been through in the past.
It really guys painful!
The quietness of graves does not mean that everyone is in paradise.
A message to people who think silent people are free of obstacles.
We are responsible about our obstacles, because we create it.
Time can be our biggest enemy, we try to reclaim the past. We avoid the pressures and the challenges of today, and we worry about what the future may bring. Time flies it is like ” the guy who’s still pining to his ex wife, waiting for day she returns ( it has been ten years). ”
All we truly have is now — today! The past is gone, and the future has yet to arrive. Living in either the past or future causes you to lose the now.
Now is when you can make a difference in your life, not the past or future. Now is where you find happiness and inner peace. Now is where you enjoy what the universe has given you — family, friends, and whatever brings you joy. They may not be there tomorrow. NOW is the place to plant seeds for tomorrow’s success.
Finally, make your notes, write down your thoughts and then, revise it. because it will help you succeed to live your present and your now.