We could see a lot of individuals do their best to look the best and the coolest one ever to their partners.
Here is the biggest mistake it could ever happen to you, it will take you too far away from your reality. Though, behaving too kind or like an angel will affect you later. Since in practical life, everything will appear on its real nature- your real behaviours. At my side, I would like to behave naturally leaving away from being disguised as of an angel. Therefore, everything will taste good for you. You know why?! Because you stay as you are and whoever likes you will for sure stay with you. And others who are unable to bear your hard or passive actions will ultimately leave you, Don’t forget that it is going to return for you in good things for avoiding such many obstacles in the coming future. Noting, no one is an angel, each one of us has passive and positive actions, as we are human. It means, we are fallible, so no one is perfect, put it in your mind.
However, this topic will take too long to cover everything which it relates to humans’ behaviours. But I would like to cover as much as I can in this blog. Heading back to the point, we know if we behave naturally, it will be much much better and who accepted to continue life with its sweetness and bitterness it will be so great. In contrary, if you got lucky and had your partner, that one would understand you and be happy to live with. Remember, everything has a limit. Humans are not stable by their actions. It is true they accepted you, but as soon as they accept you they later change, and start breaking your inner peace and insulting you for being you are a hard one to live with, then they usually separate. For being hard and irrational or whatever they may claim about you. In this case, your dignity will start getting down. I don’t think we could all agree with this point for letting others make our dignity too low. Oh! There is also an important point wanted it to cover up here before wrapping this post up. For those who are like snakes they become nice at the very beginning and suddenly transformed into monsters. They could probably explode into your face like a bomb after being you discovered them late. You then shock and don’t know what to do later. I know we have values which it won’t allow us to do bad things to them but I think we should get low to reach their level and show them what’s not expected, in the purpose of putting a limit and saving your face.
Finally, don’t be so lenient and don’t be so hard, stay in between. This is how you can gain respect never mind how much it will cost you.
Written from the bottom of my heart.
Every year I put plans before I welcome the new year, but at first of this year 2019, I did not set goals for achieving anything.
You know what the reason is, because I am not achieving anything except of getting older year by year, responsibilities are increasing and thrown over my own shoulders. Nevertheless, I am not such a type of person who is easy to give up, but things are running in a different way. I know that it would be sometimes for our own best, it could be something there that it turns us away from our directions for something we are not aware of it, in other words, it might be for our own good.
However, plans and goals you put must be there something to support for what you have already set without it we can not do anything except one thing to find “Aladdin’s the magic lamp” and rubbing it and then later ask for our wishes. If I found Aladdin the magic lamp, I would ask for my wish to send me to another country where I can find out my future there and seek for better life, I would have three wishes, I asked for one and the two left, I don’t want them.
The truth is when resources are available, we will be ready to do whatever we want for growth. Though, I am still dreaming, my dreams have never turned out to reality.
I don’t know in what kind of shape we could receive an advice from others?!
The first advice comes either on shape of constructive criticise or destructive criticise. I think if we wanna avoid any kind of misunderstanding we should take a measurement for any kinds of advice when we need to give it, it should be within a principles and a specific criterion with specifics location and a certain time.
I believe that some advices take you away from your original personality and hinder the way you act freely.
ACT THE WAY YOU ARE, AND THE WAY YOU LIKE, THEY LIKE YOU OR NOT ( IT’S UP TO THEM) DON’T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY BECAUSE OF RUBBISH PEOPLE.
Why we need to feel that we are always wrong towards our feeling and thoughts? And why others feel that they are always correct, and never accept other people opinion. If they don’t accept, they start giving advices to reprogram your mind and attitude the way they like, so it would be easier for them to control you.
If you wanna live comfortable, broaden your mind, not as you want the way to think only, understand other parts perspectives before you judge and give an advice, Damn!
Why I need to have a fake personality and look ideal, and later you be surprised about acts and behaviours, if you accept the way I am, you are welcome.
What you think about it ?!
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No, No, No!
Creativity by hiding their ” hate ” to you, Oh malicious, don’t you know you’re burning yourself. Don’t you know ” hate ” shortens life, therefore it takes you far away from happiness.
You must believe that joy and happiness exist under these clear words ” being able to love ( others ) what you love for yourself.”
How do you guys manage malicious individuals who show love and respect only in front of you, but at your back, they’re something else.
I would love to hearing your answers in my comment section below!
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I am puzzled for how to deal with all kinds of people. You go with them right, they take you left. This is the reality!
All I know about life that it gives and with other it takes.
By one way or another when you live in developed country, you will have to see updates happens in its roads on daily basis, due to the large number people who already had cars including tourists who want to visit the country either for business or enjoying as well as new labours who have been hosted by the country to work in it as soon as they come to the country, they directly apply for a driving license, after they obtained it, they directly rush for buying a car sooner for making their life easier. And then, the country starts putting up new strategies and rules for making an easy living for those who came and the original citizens of the country itself. While executing the new strategy for constructing a new roads, you will encounter sort of like DETOURS, therefore this action is definitely a must until they have done from building it.
Now, Here the obstacles are to begin, traffic jams, getting your workplace late by staying long hours in your car, because the destination you take, there would be a lot of them going the same direction. Actually, this feeling is so boring. You will begin to think how to set up your own strategy to avoid being late to your job or spending long hours inside your cars while you go to any destinations you intended, one thing will come the first place in your mind is waking up early, this solution indicates your mind works well.
So take this image and putting it into your life’s needs, goals and whatever you want to achieve it. As a result, You will think how to find out new ways or tracks that takes you on straight to your goals. Upon this, you have to omit something so called DETOURS. Within the real journey of life we might pass through stages we could enjoy in it but we probably think we have to leave it away, it is like going to be wasting of time of our life that it won’t get back again. So we feel like we have to jump over the detours, I guess I know we will feel like we are losing valuable stuff but it sets us free later on. I believe that we can not make things we enjoy go easily but the at the end, we have to SACRIFICE sometimes for that golden goal that took us so long for achieving it. in a nut shell, SACRIFICE AND OUR DECISIONS are pretty important that leads us to final destination we dreamed for.
Wish you the very bright in your life. And thanks for reading.
Don’t be that bucket when it comes to a man wants to fill it in whatever he wants and leave.
In people’s normal conversations , there are indicators during their talk that it leads to identify their personalities who they are.! So you have to always listen more than you speak.
For the past three days, I have learned a very big lesson.
Whoever are afraid to move on, is the same one who afraid to take the decision to move on. The concept of fear is responsible for holding us back and reject the concept of development of ourselves at the same moment.