Fake Advice

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hope you are all doing well.

This is one my post, I have posted it in my facebook, as I would like to share it here with you guys too, at the same time to notify you that I am still around between in WP. I am sorry for leaving this web without further notice at my end to you. Here we go for the piece of my writing.

If you wanna advise me, go ahead…
But do not create a fantasy story to convince me…

I don’t know If you guys believe that there kinda people are trying to convince us through creating a story from their own imagination in the purpose of making us believe them. Just wrote this from what I felt. Meanwhile, it is funny to remember that our parents had used this way before, but when we grew up, we found out, it was fabricated just to lend them our silence in certain things we needed it at that time. For those, stop doing this,what it was applied in the past, it was applied. Now, it is not working at all.

Just liked Sharing this thought here.

Hussein Allam

Student’s emotions

In today’s morning during the first class, I was with my students at the classroom. One of the students just raised his hand to ask for permission so that I can allow him to talk. Then it happened, I allowed him to talk after giving him my permission.

However, after going beyond the reason of raising his hand. He has told me that he dreamt in a nightmare. He asked me If he could share it with me, I said ” yes, please! You could share it with me and whatever you want”and I then asked him ” what kind of nightmares you dreamt?” He told me ” I dreamt that mum has passed away.” He just wanted to confirm If this dream would become true or not, because he had heard that some of our dreams we may have, it could come true. This innocent little boy was so afraid that it may happen to his mother so the reason let him share it with me that he was afraid about his mum. You know, I am so friendly with my students, they feel comfortable with me. I think , that’s why he liked to share it with. Therefore, my students like me so much, they like to open up everything personal to me. Head back to the point, this kid started crying when he told me so , he made me cry though. I just wanted to give him a hug, but I was so afraid, it might be there someone else would misunderstand me wrong. As you guys know, as teachers we must keep a gap between students according for what it is happening nowadays. As a result, I did not know what to do next except telling him that nightmares happen to everyone else, this is normal, and what you dreamt in, it won’t come true to alleviate this passive feelings and thoughts which it was thrown over his shoulders. I was so sad about him. He also made me rethink of my mother. Oh! how life makes us so busy about our families and we never care about them that much like before the time they need us , and how hard turned our heart into stones, as we may not even get affected if we heard that we lost one of our dearest. This poor child changed me a lot.

Finally, I tried to cover up basic points in this blog, hope you guys got it. I wrote it so quick to keep it as reminder to remind myself first and then you guys that we have to check out our family from time to time.

Give them some of your time, they spent their lifetime caring of you until you have grown up.

Rubbish advice

I don’t know in what kind of shape we could receive an advice from others?!

The first advice comes either on shape of constructive criticise or destructive criticise. I think if we wanna avoid any kind of misunderstanding we should take a measurement for any kinds of advice when we need to give it, it should be within a principles and a specific criterion with specifics location and a certain time.

I believe that some advices take you away from your original personality and hinder the way you act freely.

ACT THE WAY YOU ARE, AND THE WAY YOU LIKE, THEY LIKE YOU OR NOT ( IT’S UP TO THEM) DON’T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY BECAUSE OF RUBBISH PEOPLE.

Why we need to feel that we are always wrong towards our feeling and thoughts? And why others feel that they are always correct, and never accept other people opinion. If they don’t accept, they start giving advices to reprogram your mind and attitude the way they like, so it would be easier for them to control you.

If you wanna live comfortable, broaden your mind, not as you want the way to think only, understand other parts perspectives before you judge and give an advice, Damn!

Why I need to have a fake personality and look ideal, and later you be surprised about acts and behaviours, if you accept the way I am, you are welcome.

What you think about it ?!

Thanks for reading!

Against the flow!

We could definitely gain creativity, if we just went against the flow of stream, as it has positive impact to turn us from consumers to productive. But if we go with the flow of stream, it means we want to stay in our comfort zone, and never think to get out of it, in this light, we will always stay as consumers not productive.

Our minds is about to switch off from its purpose, we have to believe in our mind. So make your own way and enjoy life.

It is just “click”

Just click ” SAVE ” to beautiful memories, and ” CANCEL” to get rid of the negative past to have a brighter future, instead of going into spiraling loop of depressions, and keep decreasing and increasing distances from the center point. But finally, you achieve nothing but getting worse. Forgetting is a great way to make replacement for old one by making no space for trash. You know what?! If you constantly do that, your brain will become full of happy moments, consequently, you will be busy in remembering it with a smile in your face, it will make others wonder how strong you are! whereas no time you may get to be sad.

Remember, keep deleting your passive old times until your memory becomes full so your brain later will find no space to save bad things anymore. Practice until you make it a habit.

Thanks for reading.

Self learning

Our self learning aspect can be triggered, if we depend on ourselves only. Mr. google is there for you anytime. It is not monopolizing any single information for any specific person, it is ready to provide you any information whenever and wherever you are.

Soul search, analyze, review and assess are great for self growth in all aspects of life. Particularly, for what we have passion on.

Afterlife

Unfortunately, people are clingy to materialistic stuff. They forget the biggest event, it happens when the soul gets out of the body and everything in your body will stop working. On the other words, when your time is to die. Now tell me , you tell me, did you prepare well for this moment?! Are you ready to leave the world?! Don’t tell me because I know well, nobody is immortal, everybody is on earth will encounter this moment.

It is so sad when you get to know that humans forget the moment of death due to running behind their needs in life in addition they get upset and stressful because of not gaining whatever they like. Add to this point, racism why this aspect should be between us, labelling someone by the color of skin white, or black, or by religion this is muslim, or this is christian . There is no difference between people neither language nor skin, all will die and get buried on the ground, but it goes even the same way with poor and rich people wrapped by the same piece of white cloth. Before you leave the world and say goodbye to your family. Did you live your life as needed? By being good and help others because these things you will be asked about it in afterlife.

Really, you won’t have that feeling except when you see your dearest one has passed away and and do the cemetery rituals. And then at the moment of burying you will remember that is nothing worthy in life, either having a big house and villas or having companies such a big business or variety of expensive cars or whatever, all these are useless since you are going to leave it to your family after death. Now tell me. Is it worthy?! And are you ready for this moment?! Are you well prepared?! What did you do for this moment?!

Live your life and comfort your heart by being humble and act good.

Thanks for reading.

The Detours And Your Final destination.

By one way or another when you live in developed country, you will have to see updates happens in its roads on daily basis, due to the large number people who already had cars including tourists who want to visit the country either for business or enjoying as well as new labours who have been hosted by the country to work in it as soon as they come to the country, they directly apply for a driving license, after they obtained it, they directly rush for buying a car sooner for making their life easier. And then, the country starts putting up new strategies and rules for making an easy living for those who came and the original citizens of the country itself. While executing the new strategy for constructing a new roads, you will encounter sort of like DETOURS, therefore this action is definitely a must until they have done from building it.

Now, Here the obstacles are to begin, traffic jams, getting your workplace late by staying long hours in your car, because the destination you take, there would be a lot of them going the same direction. Actually, this feeling is so boring. You will begin to think how to set up your own strategy to avoid being late to your job or spending long hours inside your cars while you go to any destinations you intended, one thing will come the first place in your mind is waking up early, this solution indicates your mind works well.

So take this image and putting it into your life’s needs, goals and whatever you want to achieve it. As a result, You will think how to find out new ways or tracks that takes you on straight to your goals. Upon this, you have to omit something so called DETOURS. Within the real journey of life we might pass through stages we could enjoy in it but we probably think we have to leave it away, it is like going to be wasting of time of our life that it won’t get back again. So we feel like we have to jump over the detours, I guess I know we will feel like we are losing valuable stuff but it sets us free later on. I believe that we can not make things we enjoy go easily but the at the end, we have to SACRIFICE sometimes for that golden goal that took us so long for achieving it. in a nut shell, SACRIFICE AND OUR DECISIONS are pretty important that leads us to final destination we dreamed for.

Wish you the very bright in your life. And thanks for reading.

A dialogue (time Vs. goal)

Goal: Hello my dear time.

Time: Hello my dear goals.

Goal: how is it going?

Time: I am great, as usual, I do my cycle in life. How about you, Goals?!

Goal: So do i, but I am trying to reach my purpose, the only problem I have is you-time, not having enough time, I am afraid to be age and achieve nothing.

Goal: so let’s have a deal with you, Time!

Time: ok, goals! let me know your deals.

Goal: I need to stop your cycle for a while, until I complete my needs.

Time: hhhhh! Are you crazy?! How could you ask me this weird question. Ha?! I will do my job as i was created for thats why my name will always be time. You understand?!

Time: If I followed what you said to me, everything would be destroyed, and mess will be in every corner of the world, so I am the only thing remained in the world true. By the way, if you achieved your goals, you will leave me away, as people do to each other. In addition, let me remind you, this will never ever happen to be in human’s control.

Goal: please, my dear time, let me have this dream to come true.

Time: No, it can’t be as you wish. So be smart, and learn how to save your time on beneficial things, or you can go through stuff that it suits your needs, so that you can be faster for achieving your goals.

Goal: it seems you right, time. honestly, I have not thought the way you did. It must be there something wrong behind wasting you-my time,

Time: yeah! now thankfully, you got it

Goal: yes, thank you- time for your advice, I will be more productive from now on.

Time: one more thing, just plan, and arrange well, for sure that will lead you to be in the right track on time.

Goal: thanks again, dear!

Time: bye

Goals: bye