It is stupid to satisfy all people about all things, in the purpose of having them as friends, we have to go against what’s wrong by avoiding saying YES all the time. And standing right next to the right side. when it comes to me, i do not worry when i have enemies in my work or any other place at all. Having had enemies is aprrove for you that you are such successful person.
I have heared someone talking about people who have a character one day. I saw it much interesting, i could believe for what he said ” a man with character, he has enemies” but ” the man with no character is loser” as i could believe totally for what he said at that time. Therefore, i noticed while my working journey abroad and in my country alike, that successful people mostly get struggled from those jealousy colleagues at work who are around and so close to them , they always create traps to let them fall in it. It seems, wherever you go, you may find individuals have these concepts ” i do not want to see others better than me” as for me, when i see those kinds of people, i pay attention for everything i do, i try to avoid making mistakes, if i did a mistake, i will report it directly to who responsible about me, because if i hid it, any of my oppenets will report it. Hence, i keep everything visible. Opponents their wish to find faults by watching you all the time, and then report it, so make advance decision and you yourself report it before they do it–be faster than them for reporting this, because managment may understand it passively, and will try to fire you by any chance, so BE CAREFUL. and finally, your oppenets will take your position after you got fired. After all, these struggles and fights that successful people may see daily in the purpose of taking their position at the company.
In brief, the way to maintain your success by being always straight and clear. It is the way how you can defeat them.
When we try to keep ourselves away from problems, we try to do that as much as we can. But it seems problems are the one coming to us. Although we are walking in the straight path. I do not know why do people like to create problems for us even we did not do anything for them. Therefore, this is the only question that i could not find an answer for it.
Honestly! If you guys encounter like this situation, How would you deal with it?
May almighty God gives for us the strength to face it. And put up a limit for these stupidity.
We sometimes fail to open the door for the first time. And if it did not open, we would push it strongly for opening it. As a result we get hurt. Then we laugh after we discovered that it can be opened in an opposite way–or in a different direction. It is like the problem, it can be solved by using our mentality not by power.
Read carefully what i am going to write here!
Your problems are not the years you have wasted. But inevitably your problem is that when you will waste your coming years when you encounter life with the same mentality.
Change; Change; Change;
Why do you talk and your nose up?
This is the most where we get hurt, and where learn better.
Finally, you will wear a piece of white cloth when you finally stop breathing.
Live the moment, and be humble.
Every little things you have will worth the journey.
I got random thoughts and do not know how to begin? But i will try to be within the circle while writing.
If you see a wrong situation, will you take an action?! People with healthy mind would answer by YES! i would take an action for eliminating this epidemic from happening again, not only a simple one, but i will go through the hardest punishment against someone who break any rules of the policy.
Because if we dont take a strong action, people will do it one more time, cosequently it will spread and you then will not know how to deal with it, as well as it will go bigger and bigger. Why?! Because there was not taken any acitions seriously and no penality has been taken against the people who made the mistake.
I am one of those who are straight and being so clear while talking, i dont talk with puzzles. Make a foggy conversation. It is just straight and clear to transfer the message to the concerned person. I am really so strict person. I can not pass everything easily, as i have to go through a deep observation through things, not normal stuff but on things when i really feel kind of responsiblity on it.
However, ignoring is a good way to comfort yourself for temporary moments only, but later you will find that you destroy everything because of those who break the rules–i mean in rules, it is just in general in any fields of works. Mess will increase and it will be harder to organise it again. It is like doing your stuff on the way you like, and you have forgotten that it must be there a policy and rules that we should follow.
I hope, it was not random, and this piece of writing is totally clear.
I finally have attached a photo contains a message in it. Feel free to ask me, if you are unable to read it what’s written in the attached photo of my post. Note;-this photo was downloaded from Pinterest!
Turkish coffee and mint tea. These two beverages, which I enjoyed countless cups of each during my day in my country either at home or work , made my day even more enjoyable.
Turkish coffee, which is served thick and muddy, is spiced with cardamom and you’ll find it at restaurants, street food stalls, and gas stations. There’s also Arabic coffee, but Turkish style coffee is more popular in Jordan, and I like it better because it’s stronger.
Mint tea, which is often just black tea poured into a cup with a few fresh mint leaves in the bottom, is a typical after meal drink.
Losers are divided into two parts;-
The first part;- think without performing.
The second part;- perform without thinking.
No growth in performance can be seen, if you could be classified within the two parts. As a result, performances need actions with executions and not only talk. Talking is easy for us to do it. But actions are hard to find who apply it. In my point of view, performance can be measured by our acitions.
In a nutshell, I am going to get full of hearing empty conversations. But I am hungry to see actions.
How amazing is this post!