Deactivate!

I told you the truth now.

You accept it or not.

It’s the truth.

What are you going to do now.

Unfriend me, it’s ok.

Block me, it’s ok.

Unfollow me, it is ok.

I don’t care anymore.

It’s truth.

Facebook.

Tweeter.

What’s up.

I all deactivated.

I am not there anymore.

Constructive criticism.

Destructive criticism.

It’s your choice.

I gave this advice.

To avoid a terrible thing may happen to you.

Being little over emotional.

Does not work nowadays.

Being angry.

Does not work either.

Accept it or not.

It’s your responsibility.

Let it be!

Let it be.

Whatever they think about you.

Let it be.

We care not about others’ thoughts.

We care a lot about achieving our goals.

Reaching our dreams is the important.

We spend all the night wakeful.

Thinking,

Thinking,

Thinking,

Our health becomes weak.

Wholeheartedly, we work.

We deserve to be better.

No one thinks, we deserve it.

No need though.

It would be there a time.

Later, your fans will highlight you.

who they care about your talents.

They will come and grab you.

Don’t waste your time looking backwards.

Take their negative words.

And prove the opposite.

Save your energy for better achievement.

You are at the top.

Let them be.

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Difference in taste!

I have my own styles.

You have your own styles.

Don’t accuse me.

Don’t prejudge me.

You had accused me of doing something.

I knew was incorrect.

You always create struggles.

Much better to separate.

I need my peace of mind.

I try to find a resolution.

No one come to a resolution.

May be, you consider your own place.

As, I need to consider my own place.

Decide!

To understand my view.

Before, we leave too far away.

Far away.

I don’t need that to happen.

But, difference in tastes makes struggles.

Acute pain

Many people are not familiar with how much pain we have endured over the course of life.

They suggest I am brave.

No, I am not very brave.

I tried all the ways but it did not work out.

I don’t think you are going to add much to what I have already tried.

I don’t think, there is a lot of evidence to back up my opinion.

After what I have been through.

I just know how to handle it.

It’s my pain.

I am not brave either, but I fought it.

It’s my pain.

Note/ I don’t know about poetry, but it was written by randomness, this is the first time, i wrote a poem. Any suggestions are all welcome.

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Pseudo stories

I say this from all heart, never get sticked to other people words and thoughts.

I honestly noticed smart personalities, when they see you better than them, they start conquering their idiot thoughts and cultivated it into your minds, within this strategy they will be in control unto your personality, if we accept what they alway say, we will consequently lose our self confidence. Be only you, and don’t be their captive because of their negative thoughts. My advice to neutral part, listen to them but don’t be captivated by their thoughts.

I am totally convinced they even tell pseudo stories to convince you that they are right. And I am convinced they Provide stories created by their own mind through their imagination, it is just a way they use to change your direction, and find the way to break your personality the way they like. Trust me! Because they find you better than them, you will notice that are always around you and never let you alone. Sign of their bad jealous part, they are always interfering in your personal life ( marriage, your career, and even where you buy your clothes, or even the colour of your underwear oops sorry😳 , but they really like that😁) so Losers and jealous are acting on this way, they are jealous of you because you get successful in certain thing, and they are even ungrateful for what they had and they then come up in way sort of like positive motive–jealous but they appear in positive way( pretending) . they help you and provide you advices but not from heart is just because they need you to be comfortable towards and loved and share them what you have such as mysterious stuff which you don’t really need to let them know about it. if you feel comfortable and then you shared your secrets ( you fell in their trap) , why you may not think that it can their weapon and be used against you, as they might share it with others which you really don’t need them to know about it. Meanwhile, in hindsight, you found out that you shared it with the wrong person.

Finally, the message is Share your doubts and negative styles and bad habits and weaknesses you have between you and yourself. Never trust anyone, trustees are so rare to find them currently.

Shake the haters off and keep moving, feel free to act whatever you like with kindness.

You have been created with uniqueness, so don’t get indulged for what they say.

Thanks for reading!

One minute of anger equals one day!

At the core of this post, we are going to learn something is extremely beneficial in how to deal with insulter in our daily life;

Getting angry in reflexive to someone’s reaction by for example insulting you, one minute equals one day waste from your life. How?!! It is because when you get insulted by someone,you will start thinking about a lot, you might spend your full day thinking about it by asking yourself why was that for?! Then your whole day will definitely get ruined.

The recipe for eliminating that anger which it may ruin your day, you must deal with insult with reason rather than anger. Either way, an insult is nothing to get upset about. However, the best revenge is simply to live an even a better life while refusing to be like that person, Get it?!!

In that light, the core of this technique or whatever you call it you might call it a ” trick ” is to let reason triumph over your reflexive emotion.

The message is ; don’t let the external litters find a way to break your inner peace. No way!! It is how to get more security against predators-insulters. If you Hear it, accept it, but don’t let it affect you.

Thanks for reading.

Peace!

Extra Something can change your life

I can believe that there are many successful individuals do things what separates them from the average. I have just read a short story about a farmer and his two sons; so I am going to write it here for gaining some benefits while reading it , it is really simple and inspiring story, therefore,  you will change your life when you just dive deep to understand it. here we go:

A certain farmer had become old and ready to pass his farm down to one of his two sons. When he brought his sons together to speak about it, he told them: The farm will go to the younger son.

The older son was furious! “What are you talking about?!” he fumed.

The father sat patiently, thinking.

“Okay,” the father said, “I need you to do something for me. We need more stocks. Will you go to Cibi’s farm and see if he has any cows for sale?”

The older son shortly returned and reported, “Father, Cibi has 6 cows for sale.”

The father graciously thanked the older son for his work. He then turned to the younger son and said, “I need you to do something for me. We need more stocks. Will you go to Cibi’s farm and see if he has any cows for sale?”

The younger son did as he was asked. A short while later, he returned and reported, “Father, Cibi has 6 cows for sale. Each cow will cost 2,000 rupees. If we are thinking about buying more than 6 cows, Cibi said he would be willing to reduce the price 100 rupees. Cibi also said they are getting special jersey cows next week if we aren’t in a hurry, it may be good to wait. However, if we need the cows urgently, Cibi said he could deliver the cows tomorrow.”

The father graciously thanked the younger son for his work. He then turned to the older son and said, “That’s why your younger brother is getting the farm.”

from the story we can conclude that successful persons are initiative and do go beyond the limitation, they do not do just the job but they do it right and complete unlike those most people who they do only what they are asked like exactly what it had happened for the older son in the mentioned story when he just followed the instructions, whereas the younger brother was enough initiative and intelligent, as he got out of the comfort area, and started turning everything around until he got something good. therefore, his initiation was fulfilled reason that pushed his father to let him handle it. bear it in mind, that most importantly, those who become successful initiate, they reach out to people, ask questions, and turning a lot of ideas until they come with stunning ideas, which it will lead to an effective applications in their life.

In connection with that story,  i would like to add one more thing to,  you know                    “serendipity” lol , I just remembered one of a plenty questions that i have been asked by the interviewer when i intended to work in their organisation as an outdoor sales man lol, the interviewer asked me ” are you aggressive?” i flinched why i have to be aggressive and offensive for this job, i think i have to be polite with my potential customer in increase the sales and hit the target, I then hold a loud laughter inside myself  Ha Ha Ha. head back to the question, i answered him”yes”, i remember that i tried all the way to convince them to hire me for the job, i turned every idea in my mind, and kept trying to run away of that question, after i got lost between my ideas which it was rounding in my mind, i came out with “initiative” Ha Ha Ha, but i explained them how should be a sales person an initiative person and why he should be like that. Oh my God, the interview took so long done from it, i finally got hired for the job after a conversation went for so long,  but you know, it was so worthy to work with them a good reputation, and well established company in the market has. but now to remind you, that i am not working in sales field anymore.

in conclusion, are you initiator? you absolutely can be. but if not! one thing is for certain ” life is not going to wait for you”

so sorry for getting too long in this piece, but it is really worthy to read.

thanks for reading.

peace!

Get your passion!

If you want to get successful in something specific, follow it by your passion.

Simply and you know that definitely it is the key for achieving anything you like and be whatever you like to be, as this is not something unfamiliar toward your personal needs.

This is just a gentle reminder.!

Peace!

Granite Character

Being unexpected and surprised all the time, it has never failed to increase person’s pain. For this reason, nothing should be ever unexpected by us. Our minds should be adapted and adjusted in advance to all things and we should not consider the normal course of things.

On other words. I mean, that we MUST prepare in our minds for the possibility of extreme reversal of fate. Hence, you must believe that we don’t have the ability to control other people’s reactions. Decreasing your pain and emotions through this strategy will stimulate your character of having such granite character.

However, if you could not go through putting this case into your accounts, try to remember a person who has this kind of character like father, grand father , colleague, your boss. You will get easily through imitating that person and apply it into yourself.

Remember, keep your emotions away of any unexpected situation by expecting everything nowadays.

Separate

Separate

Separate

Thanks for reading.

Peace.!

Flow!

Do you know that if we were given an opportunity to live another day, it means we would be able to solve any problems we may encounter during the day.

Stop getting worried from the unknown, live your life as it comes, please stop putting everything into your accounts of what’s worthy and what’s not worthy. It is ridiculous to be worried from the next day. And being a lot worried what that day may carry to us. I believe that we have plans as we need to go through it in the future. But it is not the case that i am talking about, i am talking about incidents which it we may encounter it within the day itself. For example, a colleague at work, mistakes we committed and don’t know how to deal with it when the next day comes, how should we have the courage for facing a friend we committed a mistake against him/her. Going through a new environment, or even meeting a new person/friend. we sometimes get worried about our appearance, therefore we strive to get out the best image before meeting that person. These things are enough reasons to arouse the tension and stress into ourselves, think about it for while, is it worthy?! Of course not! For this case, you don’t have to add those disturbing worries and building negative thoughts for the unknown, it will exhaust your mind body and drain your energy more than it deserves.

You know why?! Because everything will cope according and within the situation, you put a lot of worries and at the end you did not obtain what you need as required. To be more specific, someday i attended an interview, I was too much careful and stressful about how I would act in that interview to win the job, but lately found that company was not worthy to work in, not professional management was there, and its products with low quality, it can not move well in market, how i knew that it is because i have a good experience about market and what’s fast moving products can be sold very well in it. You see now why it is not worthy to add much pressure of stress over you. Hence, i learnt very good lesson from that situation, that i should not make things bigger than it is required. By the way, this it is just one of the situation which it has happened to me. But i mentioned only situation to avoid this post from getting long, and then you get bored while reading it. Oh my God i got too far away for what’s written at the head of this post. But be calm, I typed it for a reason, when we think we committed a big fault toward any persons’ rights, we start thinking much and adding another big pressure over ourselves again, when we try to approach that person for apologising purpose, we sometimes notice that person is not thinking of it at all😁. It happened really to me. I then felt, i am the one who value things more that it deserves. I also notice that if it really gets me involved in critical situation, and that person was being too careful and did not forget the issue and his emotions got hurt, when we got back for discussing about it. It was solved with no bigger efforts at my end.

Finally, don’t exaggerate and give things bigger value than its real size. Act accordingly, and everything will come in flow.

Thanks for reading!

Peace!