humans’ mind have been recently filled by strange thoughts, most women are refusing from getting married, as most of them just need a job, a big house and a very expensive car. then what? to live alone like a monkey in the house.
In today’s morning during the first class, I was with my students at the classroom. One of the students just raised his hand to ask for permission so that I can allow him to talk. Then it happened, I allowed him to talk after giving him my permission.
However, after going beyond the reason of raising his hand. He has told me that he dreamt in a nightmare. He asked me If he could share it with me, I said ” yes, please! You could share it with me and whatever you want”and I then asked him ” what kind of nightmares you dreamt?” He told me ” I dreamt that mum has passed away.” He just wanted to confirm If this dream would become true or not, because he had heard that some of our dreams we may have, it could come true. This innocent little boy was so afraid that it may happen to his mother so the reason let him share it with me that he was afraid about his mum. You know, I am so friendly with my students, they feel comfortable with me. I think , that’s why he liked to share it with. Therefore, my students like me so much, they like to open up everything personal to me. Head back to the point, this kid started crying when he told me so , he made me cry though. I just wanted to give him a hug, but I was so afraid, it might be there someone else would misunderstand me wrong. As you guys know, as teachers we must keep a gap between students according for what it is happening nowadays. As a result, I did not know what to do next except telling him that nightmares happen to everyone else, this is normal, and what you dreamt in, it won’t come true to alleviate this passive feelings and thoughts which it was thrown over his shoulders. I was so sad about him. He also made me rethink of my mother. Oh! how life makes us so busy about our families and we never care about them that much like before the time they need us , and how hard turned our heart into stones, as we may not even get affected if we heard that we lost one of our dearest. This poor child changed me a lot.
Finally, I tried to cover up basic points in this blog, hope you guys got it. I wrote it so quick to keep it as reminder to remind myself first and then you guys that we have to check out our family from time to time.
Give them some of your time, they spent their lifetime caring of you until you have grown up.
Stop building horrifying mental scenarios about what it might happen if you fail.
I believe that fear has a positive side in our life, if we think precisely that it takes away from dangerous situations that it might put us at risk. Remember! We should have balanced fear, because too much fear leads to limit our thinking and limit our life too. And it can turn into major obstacles and difficulties to success.
Well, at the beginning of one stage of my life stages, i was too careless through my school’s matters, never care about my studying, never did my homework which it had been assigned by our teachers on daily basis , noting that i was in 5th grade. Therefore, i was not doing my homework when I go to school next day, while teachers were checking out students’ assignments during the class. Later, they found out that i did not do my homework as per requested for the whole year not for one or two days only, Definitely, it has affected on me a lot, led me to stay at the same grade for the next year, not getting to next grade which I shall be in 6th grade, i got crying too much, when i got the results at the end of that year, as my ex classmates had passed the grade successfully, and promoted to sixth grade, but for me i stayed at the same class. However, at this point, i decided to change everything in my life to prevent this situation from happening again to me.
In that light, the concept of fear did not exist in my life’s dictionary, and do not know what kind of feeling, I will get when fear comes to me. But because of fear of failure that feeling started emerging, in a result, i took this fear as a positive means to support me for going to next levels of my life. As i began to have my responsibilities seriously and not to try be careless anymore due to what it had happened to me previously. Of course, i promised myself not make it happen again. Hence, i started studying hard because i do not want that bad feelings to come back again, it was really disturbing me and it has affected me negatively. Anyway, i use fear in my studying period and get it into my side positively until i succeeded in all stages of my studying. And i finally did it.
That’s why i counted fear is a great technique to help me success. As Fear should not be too much, but in a feasible way is acceptable. But you need to know that you can take fear in every field not specifically in studying, i know you know that, but i just wanted to remind you!
Finally, think always about how fear could block many paths from passing it and put us at risk as well, if we did not use it efficiently. I remember just a comment from one of my favourite readers here in WP my dear Ortensia said “Always look at the glass half full my friend and always start thinking we can do it but if we won’t it’s not the end of the world……something good will come up anyway” you can check out her blog is full of amazing, and realistic stories from the heart and it exists in her site. Here we go for her site
Replace negative fear into positive fear, and enjoy your success. As i mentioned in one of my previous posts, thoughts are choices.
thanks for reading.
We sometimes feel people that they need to take us wherever they want, it is like they need to take us into the direction which they really like or they what they believe in honestly.
Humans have different mindset which it differs from person to person either in abilities or thoughts. So we don’t have to allow them to manipulate with our thoughts and perspectives. As we have our own character, i think if we want an independent life with our actions, we shall eliminate them from our life, they might be a reason for holding us back instead of progress.
However, believing in yourself would change your life into better and your path would be seen in a clear vision, i could count those who are trying to control us by their thoughts like a fog as a result, they will block our vision from what we want to see.
Finally, if they find that their actions and thoughts helped them to success into their life, it does not mean, it would support us to success, because human’s mind, abilities , and power differs, that’s how we have been created. By the way, if we act with other people’s interference , what’s our role will be?
Be you, the world will adjust.
Guys! Want your valued views with regards to this post, and thank you so much to all of you.
How beautiful to get the trust from young people the same way you get it from little kids.
When kids trust you, they will never have any doubts that you are going to take them to the wrong direction, so when they love you, they will give you love because this is what they all have. Consequently, they will always feel more comfortably towards you, as they will be more careful to keep what bothering you away. Therefore, they will be ready to hide their eyes by a piece of cloth, and hold your hand with an open heart. It is like when you tend to give them a present and you request them to cover their vision, and ask them to open it when you are done from preparing the gift for them. You know why they closed the eyes when it is requested , because they absolutely know, you will take them to the right direction. In addition , they will not get bothered if you ordered them to hide their eyes, but they will keep smiling and the happiness covers all of their face, because they know that you are going to hand them a surprise to make them happier, all of that come from a trust which they have given it to you.
While most of the adults are getting things wrong, they will never think positive, even you are their friend, they think “trust” is just a concept they hear about, but they dont think this word is a practical concept, that we should work on, so why we are friends, if we dont give the trust for each other the same way when children give it to adults.
Finally, if we know what trust is meant for, we will sort out many problem. in addition, we will be closet to each other. Life with no trust, it is like a fire when it burns everything.
Peace, Hussein Allam
A: are you ok?
B: yes i am completely ok.
B’s inner sound: no i am not ok, i am too tired.
B: what about you, A?!
A: I am ok too.
B’s inner sound says: i wish, i could be like A
A’s inner sound says: i wish, i can feel like you when i am ok.
This is the truth unfortunately, we act like we are ok. but actually, we don’t. At the end, they are equal by results.
But keep it in mind, to whom we love, we can feel them. Even they did not say the truth to us. Look, how our beloved ones do not want to share us their pain to avoid disturbing us. As a result, we lie on each other.
When we try to keep ourselves away from problems, we try to do that as much as we can. But it seems problems are the one coming to us. Although we are walking in the straight path. I do not know why do people like to create problems for us even we did not do anything for them. Therefore, this is the only question that i could not find an answer for it.
Honestly! If you guys encounter like this situation, How would you deal with it?
May almighty God gives for us the strength to face it. And put up a limit for these stupidity.
I got random thoughts and do not know how to begin? But i will try to be within the circle while writing.
If you see a wrong situation, will you take an action?! People with healthy mind would answer by YES! i would take an action for eliminating this epidemic from happening again, not only a simple one, but i will go through the hardest punishment against someone who break any rules of the policy.
Because if we dont take a strong action, people will do it one more time, cosequently it will spread and you then will not know how to deal with it, as well as it will go bigger and bigger. Why?! Because there was not taken any acitions seriously and no penality has been taken against the people who made the mistake.
I am one of those who are straight and being so clear while talking, i dont talk with puzzles. Make a foggy conversation. It is just straight and clear to transfer the message to the concerned person. I am really so strict person. I can not pass everything easily, as i have to go through a deep observation through things, not normal stuff but on things when i really feel kind of responsiblity on it.
However, ignoring is a good way to comfort yourself for temporary moments only, but later you will find that you destroy everything because of those who break the rules–i mean in rules, it is just in general in any fields of works. Mess will increase and it will be harder to organise it again. It is like doing your stuff on the way you like, and you have forgotten that it must be there a policy and rules that we should follow.
I hope, it was not random, and this piece of writing is totally clear.
I finally have attached a photo contains a message in it. Feel free to ask me, if you are unable to read it what’s written in the attached photo of my post. Note;-this photo was downloaded from Pinterest!
Whomever neglects from women’s abilities, i hope they return to their childhood without a mother.
What you waiting for???
Just leave it away and think differently. How many times we encounter problems in our life. For sure a lot. Some of it we can tackle it and others no. So for problems which we can’t resolve it, why we need to wait for so long until we sort it out? And at the end nothing can be achieved and nothing changed or improved. You see, is not it too funny?
Some people have their own thoughts and principles. Don’t be so optimistic that you can change them someday. So no need to keep staring at the problem and be much surprised waiting for finding a solution to it. Just think of it ! Even you need to inform them for what they are doing is wrong, but inevitably, they have never satisfied. you know why because they have their own satisfaction for doing their own stuff. As a result, we have just wasted our time.
Finally, the hardest thing ever is that you can’t change anyone personality. So be cool and move forward.
People use their head for hair cutting and unfortunately, they forgot what it is there inside their head. I guess, it could be there what we call it? May be—a brain.