We sometimes feel people that they need to take us wherever they want, it is like they need to take us into the direction which they really like or they what they believe in honestly.
Humans have different mindset which it differs from person to person either in abilities or thoughts. So we don’t have to allow them to manipulate with our thoughts and perspectives. As we have our own character, i think if we want an independent life with our actions, we shall eliminate them from our life, they might be a reason for holding us back instead of progress.
However, believing in yourself would change your life into better and your path would be seen in a clear vision, i could count those who are trying to control us by their thoughts like a fog as a result, they will block our vision from what we want to see.
Finally, if they find that their actions and thoughts helped them to success into their life, it does not mean, it would support us to success, because human’s mind, abilities , and power differs, that’s how we have been created. By the way, if we act with other people’s interference , what’s our role will be?
Be you, the world will adjust.
Guys! Want your valued views with regards to this post, and thank you so much to all of you.
Peace!!
True words of perfection and wisdom
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Hi boundlessblessingblog!
How are you🙂? Hope you doing well.
And thanks for your lovely feedback, i could believe for what wrote already too. Your visit means a lot to me. Thank you again dear😊
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Welcome Hussein and you wrote so well. Have a great day.
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Thank you so much 🙂
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Welcome
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Everything you say is so true.
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Thank you so much. I do appreciate your visit. Dear! Have a wonderful day 🙂
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Have to live your own dreams, cant live vicariously for others. Others can influence ours and we can influence theirs, but can’t let others have too much power over our destinies. Nice post bro!
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That’s right, ver logic point of view you have. I agreed, but friends sometime surpass the draw lines, they think because we are friends they have the authority to do whatever they want on behalf of us. Btw, when you tell this is not your business, they take it personal. I mostly pass sort of like these situations, we are friends ok but i have my own decisions and arguments when solving a problem, not doing that on behalf of me. Anyway you said right about it. Thank you so much Sherifff. 😉😊
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Yeah, it’s your life not theirs. Don’t let them intrude on your freedom!
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Yeah exactly thats what i mean, but unfortunately there are countless number of intruders in this world. Thank you for being you, bro! 👍
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Well, keep in mind that it’s your life. There’s nothing wrong listening to other people’s advice or opinions but what you want to do with your life is always up to you. You may listen and follow what they say, or you may listen but still act as you wish. It’s all up to you how to make things work. After all, it’s only you who knows what you want exactly with your life. Though there are a lot of “intruders,” the decision is always up to you and you alone.
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Thank you so much for the comment, it is really very informative. My exact point is about who you already put lines for them to be crossed. But could find them, they still go beyond the drew lines, i agreed with you that we have to listen to their advice, but you have to remember that we have strategies when we intend to give an advice our friends, as we have to treat and give them the advice individually or separately not when there is a group of people are around us. It makes me upset if somebody advise me in front of others, they have to respect their actions in case if they need to do good things to other friends not by showing off, it will be a dumb behaviour, if we don’t know when we shall advise ( place and time) are very important to take into consideration. You know, i could feel that they make us feel guilty, if you told them, this is not a proper way to behave. Thank you so much for your appearance here. Means a lot to me, Just_me!
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Not everyone understands everybody. Sometimes, people don’t understand the lines/walls we make for ourselves and other people thus, they still cross. Better to make yourself clearer with them next time. 🙂 Also, I personally don’t mind if people give me advice, wherever, whenever. What matters to me is the manner the advice is given. 🙂 Have a good day, Hussein! 🙂
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As for you, but as for me can’t adapt myself to persons who try to show off while advising. Thank you dear for reply on comment again, Just _me! All the best
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We are created unique individual.. we should take responsibility with our own life.. so many people will advise you as if they know very well more than you but you should decide base on your own instinct and dreams.
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Definitely yes!!! Your perspective are great and precise, that’s how we should take and deal with it. Thank you for your comment, it is very great point of view 👌🙂
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