Every year I put plans before I welcome the new year, but at first of this year 2019, I did not set goals for achieving anything.
You know what the reason is, because I am not achieving anything except of getting older year by year, responsibilities are increasing and thrown over my own shoulders. Nevertheless, I am not such a type of person who is easy to give up, but things are running in a different way. I know that it would be sometimes for our own best, it could be something there that it turns us away from our directions for something we are not aware of it, in other words, it might be for our own good.
However, plans and goals you put must be there something to support for what you have already set without it we can not do anything except one thing to find “Aladdin’s the magic lamp” and rubbing it and then later ask for our wishes. If I found Aladdin the magic lamp, I would ask for my wish to send me to another country where I can find out my future there and seek for better life, I would have three wishes, I asked for one and the two left, I don’t want them.
The truth is when resources are available, we will be ready to do whatever we want for growth. Though, I am still dreaming, my dreams have never turned out to reality.
I don’t know in what kind of shape we could receive an advice from others?!
The first advice comes either on shape of constructive criticise or destructive criticise. I think if we wanna avoid any kind of misunderstanding we should take a measurement for any kinds of advice when we need to give it, it should be within a principles and a specific criterion with specifics location and a certain time.
I believe that some advices take you away from your original personality and hinder the way you act freely.
ACT THE WAY YOU ARE, AND THE WAY YOU LIKE, THEY LIKE YOU OR NOT ( IT’S UP TO THEM) DON’T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY BECAUSE OF RUBBISH PEOPLE.
Why we need to feel that we are always wrong towards our feeling and thoughts? And why others feel that they are always correct, and never accept other people opinion. If they don’t accept, they start giving advices to reprogram your mind and attitude the way they like, so it would be easier for them to control you.
If you wanna live comfortable, broaden your mind, not as you want the way to think only, understand other parts perspectives before you judge and give an advice, Damn!
Why I need to have a fake personality and look ideal, and later you be surprised about acts and behaviours, if you accept the way I am, you are welcome.
What you think about it ?!
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The lesson which you can possibly learn it from others, is much better than learning it at your own.
Because, learning things from our own could cost us a lot. However, find opportunities for yourself for listening to others, definitely it will relieve you and let you avoid different kinds of obstacles. As you should expand your perspective to life and how hard it is.
For the past three days, I have learned a very big lesson.
Whoever are afraid to move on, is the same one who afraid to take the decision to move on. The concept of fear is responsible for holding us back and reject the concept of development of ourselves at the same moment.
It is really hard when you have too many choices but you only have one decision to take.
We sometimes feel that strongest answer for any kinds of discussions and questions comes after the first answer in few seconds. But unfortunately, what it has been said, it can not be taken back. ( it’s done) it is like the bullet when it gets out of the gun and it goes away.
Create your life the way you want not as they want.
The person you claimed in the past, you are not the person that I know at this time.
The truth is with aspect of time, we can discover everything for any person. Just calm down and be patient, don’t judge people and say they are nice from one situation, wait until you deal with them many times. Finally don’t get manipulated easily , you need to test them before you reveal everything for them.
Do i need to make my life more complicated by testing them you would say who cares too?! Yes, because it is enough to be fed up all time.
I think, you know how hard to get hurt every time, and then no one cares how you feel later, you may forget the full incidents of such a situation, but you won’t forget how you felt.
Thats why Life’s tests goes in opposite way from educational tests which we always take at school. So in life, we go through the tests, then we learn the lessons through daily life situations. But at schools, we learn the lessons, then we go to test. Got it?? How far in meaning between both concept of the two tests.
Wish you all the best!
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Consistency is not to change yourself under any circumstances, even when other persons have changed their behaviours towards you. Right?!
When you need to say ” consistency ” you have to mean it, as you claimed, Even others changed, you have to stay the way you are. It is not worthy to reflect bad if others went bad against you.
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Stay as you are.
Either they accept you or not.
The important is you.
Who knows you will accept you.
Who accept you will come to you.