Unreliable Sites!!

This is so ridiculous when reading some pieces from professional network sources and surfing through internet. Finally you get what you are looking for, and then you start reading a number of articles, and got convinced about what professionals have said in their articles. Later, we contemplate about their words, after few days, you need to go deeply through the specific topic you were searching for.

Accidentally, your eyes fell off on another sources, you keep reading and then you found out the content contradicts what you have read it via reading previous sources which it relates to another professional writers.

Internet has tremendously negative impact on our lives, and it could be an even the worst place, we rely on if we go read articles from unreliable networks, because if you get influenced and your mindset programmed for what they have mentioned, it is not easy to change your habits and eradicate the negative energy you gain from that sources unfortunately. That’s why before we think to make some searches for what we need and begin to read. Wait and ask yourself if this source is trusted or not!! Do some researches about the author for where he or she belongs to. And then you can build your thoughts and your assessment from viewers while reviewing their comments about the same article that you wish to read. Or you can go through other searches from different sites to get information about the author.

What it has happened to me is that I read an article someday and I then decided to make other searches for self knowledge in a certain study. damn! I later got shocked that what i have read in the past few days compared to wha i read today, it was all contradicted. At the beginning, i was happy because i obtained what i wanted, but i am now upset, because i get a little chaotic.

In a nutshell, you may know what i have encountered and it could be even familiar to all of you, but just wanted to share you this to remind you again about such a type of this situations. My advice, do a research about the author if trustworthy or not, if a trustworthy persons , go for reading their articles and enjoy reading it

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Time, the immobiliser

We are responsible about our obstacles, because we create it.

Time can be our biggest enemy, we try to reclaim the past. We avoid the pressures and the challenges of today, and we worry about what the future may bring. Time flies it is like ” the guy who’s still pining to his ex wife, waiting for day she returns ( it has been ten years). ”

All we truly have is now — today! The past is gone, and the future has yet to arrive. Living in either the past or future causes you to lose the now.

Now is when you can make a difference in your life, not the past or future. Now is where you find happiness and inner peace. Now is where you enjoy what the universe has given you — family, friends, and whatever brings you joy. They may not be there tomorrow. NOW is the place to plant seeds for tomorrow’s success.

Finally, make your notes, write down your thoughts and then, revise it. because it will help you succeed to live your present and your now.

Smiles becomes unfamiliar

Hopefully, we can still find people smile and laugh at the same moment.

Although we are encountering difficulties of life but we can still smile and this the only thing that it can help us pretend we are happy, therefore we might forget life’s pain.

However, when I planned for shopping today to buy some stuff, i accidentally saw my friend, i have not seen him since we graduated from high school. My react was making a soft smile in my face, and i then started asking about how he is doing in his life and what he has been up to now. Consequently, he made a joke, i laughed on it, suddenly there was an old man was selling fresh fruit next to us where we stand and talking. He was looking at me, he said ” why you smile and laugh, nothing in life is worthy” i asked my friend, if he knows this guy or not?! He answered me he is a crazy man, let him alone, but as for me the old man was not looking insane as he said as long as he is working in shop for selling fresh fruit, if he was really crazy how he could work in a shop and most of his time involves in interacting with so many customers in a day dealing with money and so forth. Anyway, back to the point, i insisted to answer his question at that time, i replied, ” life is worthy and i am so optimistic” in addition, i told him ” you have to be optimistic too” what span of time have remained in your life so no need, be happy and let everything alone work”

So i am not weird he is the one is weird, because smile and laugh are the world language familiar to everybody in the whole world, and then it becomes so unfamiliar to him. My valued fellows, who is now weird ?! 😁


Life is a complicated word, when we intend to say it, we have to think deeper in its real meaning. Life is the place where we spend our time with whom we love. Life refers to a fresh meaning to how we live, it can not only be place to spend moments, live your moments it does not mean enjoy it as it is but we have to broaden our sense in it and look for what it is necessary to be added for making our live better.

Whereas, there are multi strategies that we have to look for it inner ourselves, it must be something unique exists in every person. That uniqueness is available in you, search for it and I am sure that you are going to find it and apply it in real life.

Once, you found it and apply it, you will later get the purpose for what you have been created. And then, everything will reflect in your life positively. As a result, you will notice new doors have opened to you. Living moments with enjoyment will be different from who spend only moments with no purpose, you have been created for purpose and mission, you have to turn out blank pages into full instead of keeping it empty clear pages. Let’s say that your life is the same as book, what you do, will leave a sign to direct other people after your life.

Three factors are important!

Keep tracing your negative behaviours if you really want to improve yourself in some areas, it will help you change it. At the beginning of the journey, you will definitely get some difficulties for gaining adaptations in the areas that you need to improve yourself in. Remember, thinking all the time of the stuff you want to improve it, it will work easier, because thoughts will be transformed into actions.

First, we have to increase our self awareness, second, classify people with whom we want to be. Last, avoid watchers who are always looking for other people’s mistakes.

In terms of self awareness, improving our negative behaviours into positive behaviours, so identifying the areas which we are weak in it, it will help us put a goal for achieving it absolutely. But with regards to classification, it is very necessary to classify people, the process of classification people will take time, it is ok! This purpose is for gaining your peace and avoid those who are always disturbing you by their bad attitudes. While watchers are a reason to interfere with things, it does not relate to them, but they are curious by asking wide range of questions, as they try to know everything about you, in some ways they appear in the innocent face like they are taking care of you. After you let them know about you, later, they will break your inner peace, one of aspect of their character, they look sympathetic with you.

Finally, the three factors which I have mentioned above, it is necessary to be applied in the current societies where we live.

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Accept the reality.

Accept people as they are.

Accept people’s emotions.

We may expect everyone to treat us well.

We may expect we are perfect.

Expectations are not realistic.

We seek to admiration to us.

You have your own interests.

They have their own interests too.

No Matter.

How good we are.

Flaws are there.

Arbitrary actions are there.

We are not infallible humans.

We sometimes act unfairly.

It is the fact of life.

There is no escape .

It is simple truth.

Despite of this.

Some people don’t accept its simplicity.

We can’t change the fact.


Acceptance is the best way for those who is seeking comforts in their inner soul. It is the truth. We do mistakes and others do mistake too.

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Dialogue between “Ego and true self”

Ego; how are you, true self?!

True self; I am ok.

Ego; how life goes with you?!

True self; i am not so bad. But have some problems at some points.

Ego; the solution I think you would better be, lazy, envious, irritable, prone to lie.

True self; no you are not me.

True self; i can not change myself, these are primitive behaviors.

Ego; ok! it is your choice, but i approached you because i felt in your weakness. And I came to check out if you need some help that’s why i appeared.

True self; I have my personality, and i will not allow you to change it. No need your help, I am what I am. I observe when you were trying to destroy other people’s lives. You made them feel ok that by anger can tackle a lot of personal issues. When you won, you put them in more troubles instead of solving it. And what you now telling ” help” what kinda help you are talking about ha?!! I can you tell more examples if you want.

Ego; yes, tell me more.

True self; I will tell you one more thing and it would be enough, I guess! I observe when you create illusions about fear, and prevent some people from getting more steps forward in their lives, you restrained them from achieving their goals. And you put them in obstacles that they may can sort it out without you easily but because of appearance, you hold them back by making things more complicated. And you now you telling me. You are here to provide any help. What kinda help you are talking about. I think, you are in the wring place. Just get away, it’s enough what did for others?!

Ego; now, you ordered me to leave. Are you sure?!

True self; Yes, definitely I am.

Ego; you defeated me, i think your mind is fulfilled enough. You get more satisfaction about the way how you live your life. And left far away.

True self; won the conversation, and have better life between her family, friends, and relative, and love to help others too.

*** this dialogue is about a conversation happened between true self and Ego. So stop identifying yourself with behaviors that it can come out from the brain. We are so sure that we are able to win, if we have a full satisfaction about the stuff we have it in life. Hence, our true self is better than that. As deception and illusions we can rid it off. If we want, we are able not to be influenced by these primitive. Each person are able to come free of negative, and be able to control himself. Not giving his or her feeling power over himself or herself. So everyone is able to do. ” don’t say , I can not” no of course ” YOU CAN”

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Excuses limit and prevent us from growing!

Stop making excuses because excuses limit us and prevent us from growing professionally and personally.

learn new skills and combine them in creative way.

The moment we are making excuses, we can get solutions instead of wasting our time of making excuses to ourselves. It is possible to find good strategies for approaching your problems. If you will be waiting for someone to help you sort it out, you absolutely WRONG, and so never look for growth. Therefore, you will stay in the same room. Why?!! Because you make big mistake to your mind, you stopped it from working professionally.

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A flower was eaten by little sheep

Don’t cry on flower was eaten by little sheep.

Just go on, and forget about it what’s done, it’s done!

The Flower; represents your age where you spent it in the past.

The sheep; represents what’s remaining of your age.

You need to keep going on, as the sheep has eaten it because she need to beat the emptiness of her stomach to avoid death. And grow stronger.


I told you the truth now.

You accept it or not.

It’s the truth.

What are you going to do now.

Unfriend me, it’s ok.

Block me, it’s ok.

Unfollow me, it is ok.

I don’t care anymore.

It’s truth.



What’s up.

I all deactivated.

I am not there anymore.

Constructive criticism.

Destructive criticism.

It’s your choice.

I gave this advice.

To avoid a terrible thing may happen to you.

Being little over emotional.

Does not work nowadays.

Being angry.

Does not work either.

Accept it or not.

It’s your responsibility.