Everything happens to us in life, there would be a reason behind it.
You don’t need to act angrily, if you stuck in a heavy traffic. You need to think about further consequences positively, because the reason of being stuck in heavy traffic, it might get you away of something negative, it could happen to you. And other example, if you woke up too late, as a result you will be late to attend your job on time, also don’t be bothered, because if you reached on time, you might encounter something unacceptable from your boss, or getting involved with troubles with some customers if you work in retail business. In general, any negative consequences you may face in every organisation. I experienced that of course, i could say it here and no issues for me to mention it to my valued readers, so that they can take some of positive benefits from it. , and get healed from stress, or any negative thoughts it may come to our minds. So this discussion will help you throw your negatives too far away. I hope so! However, I just remembered a situation someday, i woke up too late, regarding that time was my second day of my duty in the company. Oh i got stressed a lot, and started getting so angry oh what i did?!! I got up out of my bed in rush to reach my workplace on time. At the same moment, i took a deep breath, i said to myself, hold up for seconds, what i am doing?!! What about if i reached late, whatever it could happen to me, i will accept it, because it is my fault. I then accepted it because it must be there a bliss behind it. once i started thinking about it positively, i got so calm, directly the stress and angriness faded away. Remember, this technique, it can help you get out of troubles and tress.
Later, i reached the workplace late, the boss asked me to come to his office to discuss about the reason of getting late, and he told me ” you are new employee” and ” you do that” i answered him nicely “what shall i do?!” It was out of my control. He got so upset to me, and told me ” if you did it once again, i will report it to the HR department, that you are not so efficient to work in this store” i was so upset about his reactions, because it might occur like to everyone else, even i am new.
Although, the boss don’t know me well, and do I. It was such a warm deep discussions happened in the office, i studied his reactions at the same while, i could find out that he is good from inside, and i was thinking, that i should not blame him because he was doing his duties as well. I later got fine. However, that moment was a bliss, because i knew what kind of character he has. He is kind and helpful and that’s what it makes me to be aware next time. By the way, i was having a trouble of wakening up too early at that time. Because of that reason, i extremely do not want this to happen to me again, i started practicing to wake up early each day until I overcame it. And now don’t have this issue anymore, it was three blisses in one shot, knowing his character, practicing to wake up early everyday, and feeling the responsibility of my work.
Finally, falling in troubles could be a bliss left behind it. Accept it and act accordingly.
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