True behaviours are so rare these days!!

The pretense sometimes is connected with imitating others. But remember! When people behave naturally, it will be attached with them permanently either in positive or negative. If behaviours are negative, it can not be changed, unless you want to imitate others in a positive way like *(pretending). And be notified, that it will be for a short period of time, and after you will get bored. Therefore, you will directly turn back to your natural behaviours, you know why?!!! Simply, Because it is your nature. While people who own positive behaviours, they will act through it positively in perpetual way, you know why??! The answer would be the same for the mentioned question above #because_it_is_his_ or_her nature.

what do you think about it, guys?!

I need your valuable discussion over this.

Real behaviours are so rare these days.

Thanks to all, and stay blessed. πŸ™‚

29 thoughts on “True behaviours are so rare these days!!

  1. Be yourself…this is the best possible way for happiness nd comfortable place for a human being…
    We can’t fake ourselves for a longer period…be natural nd stay natural…thats what i followπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

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    1. But what about if we practice it, it may come to our advantages, because practice makes perfect, if we really need to change ourselves to better, and act positively accordingly, ok we may return to bad, but if we stop for what we doing, and will find wrong, we will act again in a nice way until we get it, be sure that i am talking about, if we need to fix negative things out. What you think? You got me? Thank you, Elly for your stopping by.

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  2. I believe negative aspects of self can be modified by replacing it with something positive if the person feels there is a problem. I feel like one can always modify their behavior which requires some serious efforts and needs to be consistent. Being a student of psychology I believe we have the power to focus on positive things and once it comes in a form of habit it wouldn’t even make you feel like you are putting extra efforts to focus on positive aspects. And plus I have personally implemented this technique so this works also.

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    1. I am extremely impressed by your comment, this is the healthiest comment, that i have read it here. You right, that’s what i really meant for, we can change negative by positive if we free up our inner energy, and then we would be able to acquire new skills, and apply it in our life. In addition, we just need to focus on positive things, and gradually we will forget our bad habits. All in well for what you said, such a great and keen perspectives. You have such a brilliant future in psychology field, finally i admit and respect your point your points from all heart. A trillion thanks dear, Ayesha. May i know where are you from? You have to answer this question or reject it. Thank you for your lovely comment comment, stunning words honestly. 😊

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  3. It is hard to change our true nature but we are evolving beings shaped not only by our nature, but also by our environment and those around us. We grow, we change, our nature shapes how we do this, but our lives aren’t lived in a bubble. At least that is how I look at it.

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    1. Vitally, environment has integral role by shaping oneself, you right about it. As i believe too that our nature can not be changed unless we have inner power that we can free it up in the purpose to change for whatever we want for better cases I can think that it is sort of like skills our behaviours, it can be acquired in environment , even if we grow up on certain things or conditions, it might be wrong, so it is the time to change when we became older, because, we feel that we learnt something was wrong, therefore we try to correct it asap. And act accordingly. I don’t know, if you got my point, nevertheless, your comment is just awesome too. Loved it by the way, mainepaperpusherπŸ˜˜πŸ˜‰πŸ‘

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      1. I think I see what you mean. I think we were saying the same thing essentially in different ways. As always, it is a pleasure to read your blog. β€οΈπŸ’•β€οΈπŸ’•β€οΈ

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      2. Smarts have always same thoughts, indeed! I felt the same thing while writing my reply, that w have a mutual thoughts but in different way, thank you so much for your constant support, and have a wonderful day, dear maine paper pusher ❀️😊

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  4. Just be yourself. I don’t see any point as to why other people pretend to be someone they’re not. True, being true to ourselves will not always have the approval of other people but then again, who needs other people’s approval? As long as we are being true to ourselves and we’re not hurting people in any way, I don’t see any problem with that. I don’t really care if people don’t like me for being me. πŸ™‚

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    1. Such a great and encouraging comment, you are truly amazing, loved this stunning words, you have such a deep thoughts towards these kinds of matters, very highly respected your perspectives. Thank you dear Just-Me for your elegant and attractive comment. Much appreciatedπŸ‘πŸ˜Š

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  5. You have ur own brand indeed !!
    Great post.
    Wearing masks is so easy but to put it off ..that is the most difficult i think !!


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