Because of depression you can see this world in black and white. and by optimiscism you can see the world with its beautiful brightful real colors. do not be the victim of your damn thoughts, find a hole in the middle of nowhere and burry it, don’t even try to get back to think of it over again, when it happens, make yourself busy with anything else. directly your mind will shift the way of your thinking quickly within seconds, you will gain good results If you try it. In brief, believe me It is easy to manipulate with your mind. you all need just a kind of determination.
The recipe is just to mix that step with determination and practice.
I wrote this from my own experience, please let me know, it works with you too.
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The mind that follows the traditional thinking will inevitably get out of the frame of creative thinking and will give you ordinary results that any ordinary person can give it, not putting limits to your mental thinking will give you impressive results.
Being alone is much better than being with people who have poisonous thoughts all the time because it is contagious.
Happy and unhappy individuals are the same but it differs in how we receive things and explain it out by ourselves!
We could see a lot of individuals do their best to look the best and the coolest one ever to their partners.
Here is the biggest mistake it could ever happen to you, it will take you too far away from your reality. Though, behaving too kind or like an angel will affect you later. Since in practical life, everything will appear on its real nature- your real behaviours. At my side, I would like to behave naturally leaving away from being disguised as of an angel. Therefore, everything will taste good for you. You know why?! Because you stay as you are and whoever likes you will for sure stay with you. And others who are unable to bear your hard or passive actions will ultimately leave you, Don’t forget that it is going to return for you in good things for avoiding such many obstacles in the coming future. Noting, no one is an angel, each one of us has passive and positive actions, as we are human. It means, we are fallible, so no one is perfect, put it in your mind.
However, this topic will take too long to cover everything which it relates to humans’ behaviours. But I would like to cover as much as I can in this blog. Heading back to the point, we know if we behave naturally, it will be much much better and who accepted to continue life with its sweetness and bitterness it will be so great. In contrary, if you got lucky and had your partner, that one would understand you and be happy to live with. Remember, everything has a limit. Humans are not stable by their actions. It is true they accepted you, but as soon as they accept you they later change, and start breaking your inner peace and insulting you for being you are a hard one to live with, then they usually separate. For being hard and irrational or whatever they may claim about you. In this case, your dignity will start getting down. I don’t think we could all agree with this point for letting others make our dignity too low. Oh! There is also an important point wanted it to cover up here before wrapping this post up. For those who are like snakes they become nice at the very beginning and suddenly transformed into monsters. They could probably explode into your face like a bomb after being you discovered them late. You then shock and don’t know what to do later. I know we have values which it won’t allow us to do bad things to them but I think we should get low to reach their level and show them what’s not expected, in the purpose of putting a limit and saving your face.
Finally, don’t be so lenient and don’t be so hard, stay in between. This is how you can gain respect never mind how much it will cost you.
Written from the bottom of my heart.
I don’t know in what kind of shape we could receive an advice from others?!
The first advice comes either on shape of constructive criticise or destructive criticise. I think if we wanna avoid any kind of misunderstanding we should take a measurement for any kinds of advice when we need to give it, it should be within a principles and a specific criterion with specifics location and a certain time.
I believe that some advices take you away from your original personality and hinder the way you act freely.
ACT THE WAY YOU ARE, AND THE WAY YOU LIKE, THEY LIKE YOU OR NOT ( IT’S UP TO THEM) DON’T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY BECAUSE OF RUBBISH PEOPLE.
Why we need to feel that we are always wrong towards our feeling and thoughts? And why others feel that they are always correct, and never accept other people opinion. If they don’t accept, they start giving advices to reprogram your mind and attitude the way they like, so it would be easier for them to control you.
If you wanna live comfortable, broaden your mind, not as you want the way to think only, understand other parts perspectives before you judge and give an advice, Damn!
Why I need to have a fake personality and look ideal, and later you be surprised about acts and behaviours, if you accept the way I am, you are welcome.
What you think about it ?!
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We could definitely gain creativity, if we just went against the flow of stream, as it has positive impact to turn us from consumers to productive. But if we go with the flow of stream, it means we want to stay in our comfort zone, and never think to get out of it, in this light, we will always stay as consumers not productive.
Our minds is about to switch off from its purpose, we have to believe in our mind. So make your own way and enjoy life.
Just click ” SAVE ” to beautiful memories, and ” CANCEL” to get rid of the negative past to have a brighter future, instead of going into spiraling loop of depressions, and keep decreasing and increasing distances from the center point. But finally, you achieve nothing but getting worse. Forgetting is a great way to make replacement for old one by making no space for trash. You know what?! If you constantly do that, your brain will become full of happy moments, consequently, you will be busy in remembering it with a smile in your face, it will make others wonder how strong you are! whereas no time you may get to be sad.
Remember, keep deleting your passive old times until your memory becomes full so your brain later will find no space to save bad things anymore. Practice until you make it a habit.
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For the past three days, I have learned a very big lesson.
Whoever are afraid to move on, is the same one who afraid to take the decision to move on. The concept of fear is responsible for holding us back and reject the concept of development of ourselves at the same moment.
It is so sad when you leave all the choices, and you do not even take one decision to move on. And then you come out with nothing—neither you took a decision nor you took one choice.