Student’s emotions

In today’s morning during the first class, I was with my students at the classroom. One of the students just raised his hand to ask for permission so that I can allow him to talk. Then it happened, I allowed him to talk after giving him my permission.

However, after going beyond the reason of raising his hand. He has told me that he dreamt in a nightmare. He asked me If he could share it with me, I said ” yes, please! You could share it with me and whatever you want”and I then asked him ” what kind of nightmares you dreamt?” He told me ” I dreamt that mum has passed away.” He just wanted to confirm If this dream would become true or not, because he had heard that some of our dreams we may have, it could come true. This innocent little boy was so afraid that it may happen to his mother so the reason let him share it with me that he was afraid about his mum. You know, I am so friendly with my students, they feel comfortable with me. I think , that’s why he liked to share it with. Therefore, my students like me so much, they like to open up everything personal to me. Head back to the point, this kid started crying when he told me so , he made me cry though. I just wanted to give him a hug, but I was so afraid, it might be there someone else would misunderstand me wrong. As you guys know, as teachers we must keep a gap between students according for what it is happening nowadays. As a result, I did not know what to do next except telling him that nightmares happen to everyone else, this is normal, and what you dreamt in, it won’t come true to alleviate this passive feelings and thoughts which it was thrown over his shoulders. I was so sad about him. He also made me rethink of my mother. Oh! how life makes us so busy about our families and we never care about them that much like before the time they need us , and how hard turned our heart into stones, as we may not even get affected if we heard that we lost one of our dearest. This poor child changed me a lot.

Finally, I tried to cover up basic points in this blog, hope you guys got it. I wrote it so quick to keep it as reminder to remind myself first and then you guys that we have to check out our family from time to time.

Give them some of your time, they spent their lifetime caring of you until you have grown up.

Fallible

We could see a lot of individuals do their best to look the best and the coolest one ever to their partners.

Here is the biggest mistake it could ever happen to you, it will take you too far away from your reality. Though, behaving too kind or like an angel will affect you later. Since in practical life, everything will appear on its real nature- your real behaviours. At my side, I would like to behave naturally leaving away from being disguised as of an angel. Therefore, everything will taste good for you. You know why?! Because you stay as you are and whoever likes you will for sure stay with you. And others who are unable to bear your hard or passive actions will ultimately leave you, Don’t forget that it is going to return for you in good things for avoiding such many obstacles in the coming future. Noting, no one is an angel, each one of us has passive and positive actions, as we are human. It means, we are fallible, so no one is perfect, put it in your mind.

However, this topic will take too long to cover everything which it relates to humans’ behaviours. But I would like to cover as much as I can in this blog. Heading back to the point, we know if we behave naturally, it will be much much better and who accepted to continue life with its sweetness and bitterness it will be so great. In contrary, if you got lucky and had your partner, that one would understand you and be happy to live with. Remember, everything has a limit. Humans are not stable by their actions. It is true they accepted you, but as soon as they accept you they later change, and start breaking your inner peace and insulting you for being you are a hard one to live with, then they usually separate. For being hard and irrational or whatever they may claim about you. In this case, your dignity will start getting down. I don’t think we could all agree with this point for letting others make our dignity too low. Oh! There is also an important point wanted it to cover up here before wrapping this post up. For those who are like snakes they become nice at the very beginning and suddenly transformed into monsters. They could probably explode into your face like a bomb after being you discovered them late. You then shock and don’t know what to do later. I know we have values which it won’t allow us to do bad things to them but I think we should get low to reach their level and show them what’s not expected, in the purpose of putting a limit and saving your face.

Finally, don’t be so lenient and don’t be so hard, stay in between. This is how you can gain respect never mind how much it will cost you.

Written from the bottom of my heart.

Aladdin’s magic lamp and 2019

Every year I put plans before I welcome the new year, but at first of this year 2019, I did not set goals for achieving anything.

You know what the reason is, because I am not achieving anything except of getting older year by year, responsibilities are increasing and thrown over my own shoulders. Nevertheless, I am not such a type of person who is easy to give up, but things are running in a different way. I know that it would be sometimes for our own best, it could be something there that it turns us away from our directions for something we are not aware of it, in other words, it might be for our own good.

However, plans and goals you put must be there something to support for what you have already set without it we can not do anything except one thing to find “Aladdin’s the magic lamp” and rubbing it and then later ask for our wishes. If I found Aladdin the magic lamp, I would ask for my wish to send me to another country where I can find out my future there and seek for better life, I would have three wishes, I asked for one and the two left, I don’t want them.

The truth is when resources are available, we will be ready to do whatever we want for growth. Though, I am still dreaming, my dreams have never turned out to reality.

Rubbish advice

I don’t know in what kind of shape we could receive an advice from others?!

The first advice comes either on shape of constructive criticise or destructive criticise. I think if we wanna avoid any kind of misunderstanding we should take a measurement for any kinds of advice when we need to give it, it should be within a principles and a specific criterion with specifics location and a certain time.

I believe that some advices take you away from your original personality and hinder the way you act freely.

ACT THE WAY YOU ARE, AND THE WAY YOU LIKE, THEY LIKE YOU OR NOT ( IT’S UP TO THEM) DON’T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY BECAUSE OF RUBBISH PEOPLE.

Why we need to feel that we are always wrong towards our feeling and thoughts? And why others feel that they are always correct, and never accept other people opinion. If they don’t accept, they start giving advices to reprogram your mind and attitude the way they like, so it would be easier for them to control you.

If you wanna live comfortable, broaden your mind, not as you want the way to think only, understand other parts perspectives before you judge and give an advice, Damn!

Why I need to have a fake personality and look ideal, and later you be surprised about acts and behaviours, if you accept the way I am, you are welcome.

What you think about it ?!

Thanks for reading!

Against the flow!

We could definitely gain creativity, if we just went against the flow of stream, as it has positive impact to turn us from consumers to productive. But if we go with the flow of stream, it means we want to stay in our comfort zone, and never think to get out of it, in this light, we will always stay as consumers not productive.

Our minds is about to switch off from its purpose, we have to believe in our mind. So make your own way and enjoy life.