Childcare centers compared to grandparent’s care! 

Some parents think that childcare centres provide the best services for children of pre-school age. Other working parents think that family members such as grandparents will be better carers for their kids.
Discuss both views and give your opinion.

There two different perspectives with regards to parents and childcare centre. On the first hand, parents believe that childcare centres are the best choice for children of preschool age.on the second hand, parents believe that grandparents will be better carers for their children. Therefore, I will argue here the two different point of views accordingly.

Nowadays, parents get busy with work whole day running to fullfil life requirements, as they don’t have time to stay at home due to work pressure. However, most of the fathers and mothers are working to gain money to continue up their life naturally, due to high cost of living, as they have other responsibilities that they need to cover it up such home rent, school fees, and other home staff. Therefore, they found that childcare centers are the best place to leave them in it in their absence, but we believe that this centers request money for the purpose of taking care of their children, it will be added as extra expenditures for parents . In addition, it has passive consequences when leaving children at the care center, hence children look for compassion and love which it can not be found in these centers. For example, child care community showed in recent reports that immatures might be isolated and get more tough while staying far away of their families. As a result, the relation ship between children and parents are getting less effective.

On the contrary, parents who prefer to leave children with grandparents are the best means to take care of children, they saw it as an effective way. As a consequence, they save money as they will be rest of assured that their children in a safe place, as they provide the most important aspect which it is love, as it can be given to kids, which it is not available in the care center, so grandparents may give extra care to children, and controlling their behaviors, and updating their parents about it when they come back from work. However, grandparents’ care has positive side which they can not feel that they are isolated while they are at home, because the environment which it has been provided to them is totally familiar, as they can be more effective.

In brief, we believe that childcare centers have pros and cons, but we believe that grandparent’s care is more efficient and positive.

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2 thoughts on “Childcare centers compared to grandparent’s care! 

  1. This is a very interesting topic. I have never had children, and surely never will, but my sister had two boys. I know the boys were very attached to my mother (their grandmother), but they did go to daycare. The difficulty was that both of my parents and the boys’ other grandfather worked until they were school age, so they couldn’t watch my nephews. My brother-in-law’s mother didn’t want to watch them. I know my nephews hated daycare. It is a shame how in the United States there often isn’t an available grandparent at home during children’s earliest years, such as in my case.

    When my sister, brother, and I were below school age my mother was home as a housewife. I loved being with my mother during those years. My grandparents lived a good 40 minutes away. I would have loved being with my paternal grandparents,,but my maternal grandmother was very strict and unfriendly towards us.

    I am in my 40s. As I said, I will surely not have children. But if I did they would have to go to daycare unless I stayed home. My dear mother died over 12 years ago, and my dad would not watch any young kids or baby. My husband’s parents both passed away too. My mother-in-law watched my husband’s sister’s kids. That was nice for them. She wouldn’t have been able to watch our kids, even if she was alive, because she lived in Europe and my husband and I live in the U.S.

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  2. Thanks for being real against your comment, it is impressive, I enjoyed reading it, because it is based on reality. In the modern age a lot of mothers get busy due to the requirements of life, so they have to fulfil their needs in life, but I believe in the past, most of mothers were just staying at home to take care of their children, and man is the homebread for his children and wife too, but in certain cases of the death of grandpa and grandma, parent don’t have a choice except by going to put their children in the care center to care of their children, liked your sense in writing this comment!

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